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berkman858

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Rainbow - I don't mean to be rude but is this thread supposed to help your self esteem? Not to mix things up, I think your pics look very nice and I see no issues with what I see (IE: could be a world of hurt above), but this seems like you are fishing for compliments. I don't know if this is the right place for self esteem boosting, unless like me your self esteem is boosted by healthy plants.

Again, I don't mean to offend but really?????? You post pics of yourself like that and you are trying to be empowering? C,mon don't bullshit us..... You just want us to tell you that you look hot, which you do so DOUBLE FUCK YOU! Nah, JK but really???
 
RainbowBrite86

RainbowBrite86

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berkman858 said:
Rainbow - I don't mean to be rude but is this thread supposed to help your self esteem? Not to mix things up, I think your pics look very nice and I see no issues with what I see (IE: could be a world of hurt above), but this seems like you are fishing for compliments. I don't know if this is the right place for self esteem boosting, unless like me your self esteem is boosted by healthy plants.

Again, I don't mean to offend but really?????? You post pics of yourself like that and you are trying to be empowering? C,mon don't bullshit us..... You just want us to tell you that you look hot, which you do so DOUBLE FUCK YOU! Nah, JK but really???
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Dude. I didn't call myself fat. I put up pics and said I look just fine and I like the way I look and if you don't like it then fuck you. And that's the way I feel all women should be regardless of their size because I don't think we should let men define what is and is not beautiful. Compliments are not required as my self esteem is just fine.
 
RainbowBrite86

RainbowBrite86

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And let's be honest, any woman regardless of what they look like will have some guy say something nice about her if she has enough clothes off because it's a hole to stick it in. There are very few compliments I take seriously, and none of them have to do with my looks.
 
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berkman858

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I said multiple times that YOU LOOK GOOD, so chill out. You said "I feel all women should be regardless of their size because I don't think we should let men define what is and is not beautiful."

So..... what is it you want out of this thread? I am interested if you say it def isn't a self esteem boost.
 
RainbowBrite86

RainbowBrite86

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berkman858 said:
I said multiple times that YOU LOOK GOOD, so chill out. You said "I feel all women should be regardless of their size because I don't think we should let men define what is and is not beautiful."

So..... what is it you want out of this thread? I am interested if you say it def isn't a self esteem boost.
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I'm so chill you have no idea lol. I am completely couchlocked at the moment. I want women to have more confidence and I want men to stop making women feel like the thinner they are the better they are.
 
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berkman858

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RainbowBrite86 said:
And let's be honest, any woman regardless of what they look like will have some guy say something nice about her if she has enough clothes off because it's a hole to stick it in. There are very few compliments I take seriously, and none of them have to do with my looks.
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OK, you are somewhat down to earth from that comment. You at least have a vague understanding of men.
 
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berkman858

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RainbowBrite86 said:
I'm so chill you have no idea lol. I am completely couchlocked at the moment. I want women to have more confidence and I want men to stop making women feel like the thinner they are the better they are.
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Couchlocked?? What strain may I ask?

I know the media says thinner is better but where in your personal life are you getting this overwhelming feeling that women need to be thin? I know I don't project that to the women I come in contact with so I am curious as to where this comes from, besides the media?
 
RainbowBrite86

RainbowBrite86

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I was trying to talk about women in general. Put up a pic of myself to make it personal because i'm also not one of the "skinny" model types. I'm a size 12-14. The point is women get called "fat" as a way to shut them up. On this forum board alone, i've seen both Urca and Kuroi be called fat. Tell me how appearances should have any bearing on an online discussion board? And no one has even addressed that because they were too busy making comments about my pictures, (that I did not call fat) which is why I can see now that that was a mistake.
 
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berkman858

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RainbowBrite86 said:
I was trying to talk about women in general. Put up a pic of myself to make it personal because i'm also not one of the "skinny" model types. I'm a size 12-14. The point is women get called "fat" as a way to shut them up. On this forum board alone, i've seen both Urca and Kuroi be called fat. Tell me how appearances should have any bearing on an online discussion board? And no one has even addressed that because they were too busy making comments about my pictures, (that I did not call fat) which is why I can see now that that was a mistake.
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I agree with you that size, shape, or weight should have absolutely no bearing on one's opinion or worth. I personally do not make the association but I know most do. I used to be a "Fat fuck" at 270 but after getting hit by a truck, which is one of the best diets around, I am 160 so I know both sides of the game. I am very well aware of the discrimination against the heavier of us, but I do think that up to a point it should be tolerated and after that it is a personal issue where if that person wants to live a life and be a heavy fucker, than they have to deal with the stares of horrified children.
 
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EROsain

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ehh , been sitting here for a while trying to think of some sexual innuendo that goes with Rambo brite :D, cuz you are really all that ;) . but al say one thing , i get yelled at a lot when i look at fit girls these days , its like a taboo. so al say yes, if a chick works out and she is firm and isn't bone skinny am all about that, why shouldn't i like that :? , i also like (prolly even more) . a lil extra . there both good for diff reasons. my problem is the extremes the ones that sit all day and are pushing 300 Lbs and the others who are anorexic and are under 100 Lbs , i like my ladies healthy is all am saying , and ppl like you who are blessed like that should not spend time fretting over it. i d k what happened to make you question your self, but just so you know to some of the ladies i know who i my self consider hot, you are the skinny person.
 
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