Dude I grow in South Carolina, I think I'm past the legality issue. I just wanted to see her phone info before she deletes it. I need to know for sure so it's not just accusations. Even if I caught her at someone's house she would say so "what we are old friends and my phone died, I'm sorry" then I'll be made out to be the bad guy. I'm just saying she is smart so she will come up with something to make me seem wrong. The old phone hidden in car is a good idea I guess but she may not be cheating but just talking to people or sexting. Idk but I plan on finding out, if I have to track down a hacker and get them to connect our phones somehow. It would be great they could make my number a clone of hers so we both receive the same info.