Need relationship advice dealing with a mean controlling woman

Sounds like a toxic relationship and very one sided. We gotta give and receive, if she can’t come to terms with that and give you what you desire from the relationship maybe it’s time to go separate ways. If communication has broke down to just yelling and arguments then it’s prolly time to head out. My wife and I are always on the same page weather we agree or not with each other we are a United front in our lives you gotta work together to make it work and if your the one doing it all then it won’t work forever wish you the best of luck in life I never like to hear that stuff
 
Hollatchaboy said:
They have most whipped. I got lucky and broke the cycle. In retrospect, I am happier, but I am lonelier. You gotta figure out your priorities.
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100 percent agreed gotta find what’s right for both parties in a relationship sorry to hear that but things get better as long as you try and make them better
 
Rurumo said:
Sounds like a typical, average marriage. You just need to imagine if sitting in your house alone and eating slim jims sounds more appealing than dealing with her.
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Many people surrounded by disfunction see it that way. That’s all they know.
 
Hiphophippo said:
100 percent agreed gotta find what’s right for both parties in a relationship sorry to hear that but things get better as long as you try and make them better
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Yea I'm one of those who's better off alone. I like to do what I want, when i want to. I'm not willing to compromise. Lol
 
trueweedsmoker said:
I have a girlfriend that I have been fooling around with on and off since the age of 15. We finally reconnected 8 years ago and she moved in after a few months.

We fall out alot cause I don't trust her and she does funny things. After 7 years we fell out and she moved with her mother. She had already gotten mean and want no sex. Yelling at me , sleeping at the other end of the bed, getting agrivated when I touch her while we sleep.


She kept staying over every weekend but goes back to her mother's every week for work to take a work van. She won't let me take her to work.eveytime I ask the simplest of questions she snaps telling me to stop asking her questions, but gets jealous and ask me a few questions a month.


Now my sister died she came to move back in, took off work 2 weeks of work for my sister death. I buy her things but she never left until she got her job 8 months ago out of 8 years. She's ran alot in the past but not like this. She's always right, and watch all her shows on tv.

She does things for me but now her daughter missing and I can't use her phone and blocked from her Facebook. But when she's here she's with me all of the time..what's going on.
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I realized in many relationships that if I'm complaining about my girlfriend to other people, it's probably time to end it. That or live with the stress everyday.

I eventually met someone who connected with me about 90%. The other 10% we work on. We're married now but marriage does nothing to improve the relationship. It's really just saying to the other person that you want to start a family with them and you're committed.

Being single is cool too. People find what is best for them.

If you feel this girl is your last chance, she isn't. It just takes time to meet someone new. Big tip, don't meet girls at bars or clubs. Meet them in places that you're interested in. Example like if you like tennis join some tennis clubs. That way you already share something you enjoy thats in common.

I hope this make sense, I was a bit baked when I wrote it.
 
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Hollatchaboy said:
Yea I'm one of those who's better off alone. I like to do what I want, when i want to. I'm not willing to compromise. Lol
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I have a buddy like that. He's always sad to see his bed empty, and somehow surprised that to be the case. Dude is pretty pathetic around women too. I've tried to set him up a few times, and the one time he did get his dick wet from my set-up, she wasn't very happy and sent her big brother to exhort him. Dude buckled and gave up a some cash and zips. I felt bad about it, but he gave her the STD not me, haha!
 
PJ Diaz said:
I have a buddy like that. He's always sad to see his bed empty, and somehow surprised that to be the case. Dude is pretty pathetic around women too. I've tried to set him up a few times, and the one time he did get his dick wet from my set-up, she wasn't very happy and sent her big brother to exhort him. Dude buckled and gave up a some cash and zips. I felt bad about it, but he gave her the STD not me, haha!
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I'm not surprised. I never expect, so I'm never disappointed and the only person I have to answer to at the end of the day, is me. It's very peaceful and quiet. Just the way I like it. Lol
 
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