Help!

Not selling just any drugs...I'm guessing it's cocaine.

Metasynth said:

Just tell us already...We're practically a bunch of strangers...What are you afraid of? Judgement?

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Your not strangers far from it, who else could I speak to about this no one that's who!

Metasynth said:

Not just any drugs...I'm guessing it's cocaine.

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mmhmmmmmm...............

sunni said:

than selling is my only other thoughts.
if thats the case my kid would be out the door so fucking fast.

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No you won't feel like that I promise you.

And you are pissed because you and the hubby enjoy a little cocaine every now and then, or did in the past. But now your son is ballin', bringing strange folks around, and living the life...And your hubby knows that it's gonna lead to trouble, because that sorta thing always does. Your son thinks he can handle the situation, and he's not gonna grow his enterprises too large, but you see him spending more and more money, and it's concerning. You can't deny that he's in with a bad crowd, but he's your baby, and he can do no wrong.

Granny weed said:

No you won't feel like that I promise you.

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oh no i would, believe me i would.
granny youre in a world of trouble

i feel for you, but i ask you listen to us
he can kill you and your husband by doing this
he can kill other people he sells too ,

you are LITERALLY enabling him.
you are NOT protecting him keeping him at home.

i know its hard to see, but granny....youre reason he will keep doing this......you think he can do no wrong, you think he wont start using and get addicted, you think hes my baby he wont do any wrong.

......wake up granny before you have a dead child and you have to plan a funeral

MojoRison said:

I have no advice but I will tell my tale. Sixteen, 6'2 and full of pith and vinegar with the ego to match, so with a weeping heart my mother sided with her boyfriend and I was homeless. Faced with life on my own terms for the first time it was exhilarating, scary with a sense of release. I was lonely but never alone, life has a way showing you things that you never thought possible and for me was the fact that no matter where I was, what I was doing or who I was with, I was my mother son and loved, regardless of the situation I could call home and it would be answered, knowing these truths kept me warm on the coldest nights.
The back door was always open, there was always a five or ten sitting on the table and the wash seemed to be done every time I showed up and left dirty clothes.
When asked why she did those things, she replied " I love my son and my reasons are mine"

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Sixteen is very young to be alone in the world Mojo, I couldn't have done that, that's quite a sad story and I'm glad you turned out okay xx

I Like my little makebelieve story for this scenario...lol

i love you granny you know i do, only wish i could be there to help you best of luck.

Granny weed said:

Sixteen is very young to be alone in the world Mojo, I couldn't have done that, that's quite a sad story and I'm glad you turned out okay xx

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Thank you GW.
I wish there were a way of making this easier for you.

Metasynth said:

And you are pissed because you and the hubby enjoy a little cocaine every now and then, or did in the past. But now your son is ballin', bringing strange folks around, and living the life...And your hubby knows that it's gonna lead to trouble, because that sorta thing always does. Your son thinks he can handle the situation, and he's not gonna grow his enterprises too large, but you see him spending more and more money, and it's concerning. You can't deny that he's in with a bad crowd, but he's your baby, and he can do no wrong.

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I have never touched the stuff and neither has my husband, it was booze in our day not drugs. And yes your right he's in with the wrong crowd and he can do plenty wrong I know he's no angel, but he thinks life is good and the money is plentiful, he doesn't do it himself he says that's a mugs game, he watches and learns from these people he brings no drugs to my home he knows that's taboo, but your right again things progress and my husband can see this he watches his mates in their flash clothes and smart cars and he is in awe of them.

Ooooh I'm goooooood....lol...Except that I didn't peg you for a boozer.

On a side note, I hear cocaine is a VERY lucrative business over there...

No wonder he's starstruck. I used to sell a lot of weed before it was "legal" for medical patients in Cali. Easy money is just that, easy. It comes in easy, and it goes out easy, because it has no value. If you don't work for your money, and it's just flowing in, it's very hard to manage it. If you were to say your son has 30k stashed away in some account or safe somewhere, and he's just saving his money, then I would say yes, he probably has it under control. But he probably just wants the flashy clothes and cars that his mates have, and that leads to recklessness. I dunno, I have some insight into the world of illegal drug dealers, because I have known a LOT of them...

All that being said, back in the day I started selling weed to support his own habit, so how sure are you that he's not doing it himself?

Ahem...I mean...Selling drugs will only lead to trouble, and he should re-evaluate how he wants to conduct himself.

Granny weed said:

No you won't feel like that I promise you.

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I would I promise you. Because I have already...and she's not even 18.

she wanted to live with her dad so she went there. Then she wanted to come back. so we let her. then she didn't want to follow our rules...so we kicked her ass back to her dad.

I've raised her since she was 4. and done far more for her than her dad ever did.

Metasynth said:

On a side note, I hear cocaine is a VERY lucrative business over there...

No wonder he's starstruck. I used to sell a lot of weed before it was "legal" for medical patients in Cali. Easy money is just that, easy. It comes in easy, and it goes out easy, because it has no value. If you don't work for your money, and it's just flowing in, it's very hard to manage it. If you were to say your son has 30k stashed away in some account or safe somewhere, and he's just saving his money, then I would say yes, he probably has it under control. But he probably just wants the flashy clothes and cars that his mates have, and that leads to recklessness. I dunno, I have some insight into the world of illegal drug dealers, because I have known a LOT of them...

All that being said, back in the day I started selling weed to support his own habit, so how sure are you that he's not doing it himself?

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Oh he's done it and I know when he has it changes him noticeably, so we had a little talk about it before he left for Australia and he agreed he was not the same person when using so he stopped, and I know this may seem ridiculas but if you ask him he will never lie even if you don't like the answer so I know he's not.

Being a 25 year old male adult myself, what your son is doing is creating potential harm for his future. From my heart, life is cause and effect, regardless of his intentions, the causes he is making do and will continue to bring about effects, know this, with all your wisdom illuminated through your life. There is a better way, your husband, you and your son all know this. From a song I l love "I can tell your future, look what's in your hand". 24 is grown granny. 18 is an adult, in all of society, a global perspective of a accepted perception. I've wanted to move out more than once, and did so when I was 19. Lived with the band, toured, lots of music. I've wanted to move out since, cause I understand that as a grown human being I have the capacity to move forward and make my own home the way I want, contribute more to society and peoples lives, and in turn also give back whatever I can in all forms to my mom for being a truly solid genuine person who supported me as I was growing, and still wants to be involved in my life, but respects what I say and understands I've made my own life and I am making my own home, which won't ever be more than just a stroll away even were I to move way across the planet, we are still within a hop skip and a step from each other.

Has your son discovered The Grateful Dead yet? The music, yea it will help.

joe macclennan said:

I would I promise you. Because I have already...and she's not even 18.

she wanted to live with her dad so she went there. Then she wanted to come back. so we let her. then she didn't want to follow our rules...so we kicked her ass back to her dad.

I've raised her since she was 4. and done far more for her than her dad ever did.

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That's sad Joe, but often the way, she will realise what a good dad you have been when she gets older. I don't know kids who'd have them lol x

keysareme said:

Being a 25 year old male adult myself, what your son is doing is creating potential harm for his future. From my heart, life is cause and effect, regardless of his intentions, the causes he is making do and will continue to bring about effects, know this, with all your wisdom illuminated through your life. There is a better way, your husband, you and your son all know this. From a song I l love "I can tell your future, look what's in your hand". 24 is grown granny. 18 is an adult, in all of society, a global perspective of a accepted perception. I've wanted to move out more than once, and did so when I was 19. Lived with the band, toured, lots of music. I've wanted to move out since, cause I understand that as a grown human being I have the capacity to move forward and make my own home the way I want, contribute more to society and peoples lives, and in turn also give back whatever I can in all forms to my mom for being a truly solid genuine person who supported me as I was growing, and still wants to be involved in my life, but respects what I say and understands I've made my own life and I am making my own home, which won't ever be more than just a stroll away even were I to move way across the planet, we are still within a hop skip and a step from each other.

Has your son discovered The Grateful Dead yet? The music, yea it will help.

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lol
Garcia died of a heart attack because of all the years he abused methamphetamine and coke.

Best of luck to you Granny.