Blue Wizard
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I just got home, I'm dead tired and haven't eaten anything in 12 hours but now I've got to go back to work because someone kicked a door in.
Fucking god damn animals.
Fucking god damn animals.
The lyrics alone make me feel homesick innit!?Girl with a really cute voice, singing with a busker in Peckham....
Should be trimming. Instead I'm fucking about online watching shit like this
@Flaming Pie Had to respond: Girl, I've been there and learned this: You are a grown woman with her own child. Try not to let your dad get to you it's either:We both love each other, but he is so stubborn. He isn't willing to accept my decisions or respect my opinions.
Hen my feelings are hurt he doesn't try to work on our communication.
http://www.morticianschool.net/embalmer/After 13 years I've decided I'm quitting my job at the end of the season. I think I'm going to try and find a job in a totally different field. And just do some sidework relevant to my current occupation to pad the wallet. I kinda just hate people nowadays. What's a job that you don't have to talk to people?
You can be a Mime artist.After 13 years I've decided I'm quitting my job at the end of the season. I think I'm going to try and find a job in a totally different field. And just do some sidework relevant to my current occupation to pad the wallet. I kinda just hate people nowadays. What's a job that you don't have to talk to people?
You can be a Mime artist. View attachment 3416392
If you find out, let me know. I'm just about ready to burn this whole town to the ground.What's a job that you don't have to talk to people?
My favorite album!! Just saw them play on Saturday for the 7th time... I have a slight obsession with Brand New. I'm one of those weird fan girls.I remember your name but your avatar gave me a boner. The devil and god are raging inside me. Love that album
prostimute.If you find out, let me know. I'm just about ready to burn this whole town to the ground.
I saved one yesterday! Deja vuI'm sick and haven't slept more than maybe 3 hours in the past two days. I show up to work and find out there was a ton of vandalism done during the weekend and the new guy did a bunch of stupid shit and broke some new equipment.
But I saved a birds life this morning, so it was worth it.
All the King's horses and all the King's men couldn't put Kinetic's Fucks back together Again.
I wondered where my wife went off to.think i just ate the best peach ever
I highly recommend neurosurgery. You can be pleasant to anyone for a few seconds before they go to sleep. Most of the office discussion is done by the staff and you just do your assessment and pass off handling to your coordinator. Best of all after the big surgeries they tend not to talk a lot.If you find out, let me know. I'm just about ready to burn this whole town to the ground.
I found a baggie today with a huge cock and balls drawn on it.prostimute.
It was a combination of him being unaware he was hurting my feelings and him wanting the best for me.@Flaming Pie Had to respond: Girl, I've been there and learned this: You are a grown woman with her own child. Try not to let your dad get to you it's either:
a) He forgets you are a grown woman with child of her own and needs to butt out
b) He loves you and wants what's best, but being a guy, can't say that so he bosses you around to show he cares (classic dad of grown daughter move)
c) He wants you to avoid the same mistakes he made so he is critical about anything you say or do and your opinions are wrong too (another classic dad move)
d) All of the above
At any rate, Save yourself a decade of second guessing yourself like I did. I wish I knew then what I know now as my own are nearly grown. Your parents had their time to parent their child, (you) now that child is an adult and the key to parenting an adult is to guide, not boss. Be confident in how you're living your life. Take what your dad says and look at it objectively: Is there a grain of truth to what he's saying? If yes, maybe make some changes for the better, if no, let it roll of your back and move on, confident in the knowledge that you are your own person now.
HUGS TO YOU! (I so know what you are going through)
I hope that your husband settles down a bit and can put stuff into perspective. It sucks to be jacked around by your parents as a grown person but it is the way it is. Hope this breakthrough w your dad leads to a new and better relationship.It was a combination of him being unaware he was hurting my feelings and him wanting the best for me.
We haven't had a close relationship since my teen years because we both hide our feelings and get loud/irrational when we get hurt. I also developed depression in my teens. I never knew how to express my feelings without swearing or yelling.
My dad said it was because he wasn't a good role model for expressing feelings.
My husband got mad at me for being sad about my father because it reminded him of his father. He blew up at me and told me to give up on my dad because nothing was going to change. He yelled at me and talked over me saying that nothing has changed and it will just hurt me more to try.
Upset, I drove right back to my parents crying. I told my dad I needed a hug and then I just broke down even more. I told him that ever since his heart attack I have realized how important he was to me and I wanted to have a good relationship with him. I wanted to laugh with him and have fun. I wanted to hear things he thought I was doing right and that he loved me more often. I also asked him to ask me for help on things he knows he is okay with me helping with. He is not someone who likes suggestions, so just tell me what you need help with and how you want it done so I can feel like I am useful and important because I want to help him.
He explained a few things about himself and I told him that I will keep them in mind. He said I could say "dad you're being kinda rude" or "dad you hurt my feelings" and he would do his best to make it right.
He held me the whole time we talked and my mom was crying, my brother was crying, my dad was tearing up.
I told him I always love him even when I am mad/upset. I apologized for a few things I said and didnt say. I asked him if he would turn me away if I was crying and he said never.
Then after we watched the end of Game of Thrones and he said that I was very brave for coming over and talking with him. I said I didn't want my husband to be right.
I never want to give up on my dad.