Too many kids these days don't understand the concept of deferred gratification and will never get to where you and I did. They'll piss off their time and money on stupid shit. My older sister and her husband are like that. They can take 2 nickels, rub them together and the nickels disappear in thin air.
One of my godsons is like that where he wants the best of the best NOW !
I just had one hell of a day with him & found out he's out of control with spending & living way above his means .
He's 26 yrs old & lives off student loans & welfare/foodstamps , i just found out he sells half his foodstamps for half price for more play money , i cussed his ass the fuck out early this morning , i gave each of our sons a Harley this spring cause my wife cant ride either of her hd's anymore & i barely even ride any of the bikes except the old Panhead , so we figured to give all the kids a bike , my wife mentioned she'd like to give the godson her little 500 cc Buell Blast Harley & i told him to come by & pick it up , this was before my son called this morning & filled me in on the shit he's pulling & how he's wasting $4k from his student loans every 90 days & that the kid is over $60k in debt with credit cards .
I knew the godson was living in one of our rental houses but since i turned the business over to my middle son i dont get involved , its his business now so i just advise him about which homes to buy , anyway come to find out my godson hasn't paid my son one lick of the $850 a month rent that house rents for in over 6 months , he shouldnt even be living in a house with rent that high but he has to live in a super nice house , my son dont want to boot him out cause he has 3 kids .
He claims he's broke but pays $220 a month for the premium cable tv package & all the pay channels like hbo , then he has wifi too , when i cussed him out today i pointed out that i use a tv antenna & get free tv , his reply was " I cant get by with the 20 channels you get " then he said he has to have $60 a month wifi because Facebook is faster on his phone & he plays online video games for relaxation , i blew up & made him go over his expenses with me .
He also spends over $100 a month at the shooting range on ammo for all his weapons , between cable , the shooting range & online video games he spends $500 a month but cant pay rent , he just bought an AK 47 a few months back & a new $800 9mm carbine , plus new rims for the Chrysler 300 we gave him last year for xmas ,when i cussed him out over wasting $1,600 on rims his excuse was one of the factory rims was all scratched up from hitting a curb so he HAD TO HAVE new rims .
I didnt want to upset my wife being she just had major surgery so i took him out to the garage to cuss him out , i was still gonna let him have the 500 cc Buell my wife wanted him to have but when i showed him which bike she wanted him to have i could see a look of dissapointment , so i ask him whats wrong & dig this , he says WOW THANKS but i was hoping i was gonna get memaws Fatboy because she cant ride it anymore , wtf ?
I explained he couldnt have her Fatboy because we were leaving it & my Panhead to our son's when we kick off , i could see his mind working & he had the balls to ask if he could have my 1200 cc Buell Lightning Harley racing bike instead of the smaller 500 cc Buell so he could keep up with the bigger bikes we gave our sons , i freaked out & gave him the cussing of his life & told him he wasnt getting anything & to leave now , he wanted to go in & talk to my wife about it before he left, i said no & made him leave .
He wasnt gone 10 minutes before he called my wife blubbering like a baby , got her all upset & she says to me just give the kid your Buell poppa ,he's a good kid & we dont even ride the bikes , he's her favorite godson & i didnt want to upset her so i told her i'd let him have one of the other bikes ( I lied
)then i called my son & filled him in on what went down .
Now my son's pissed & gives me more bad shit about him being too lazy to work , apparently my son offered him a job at $12 an hour helping my 2 brother in laws remodel the houses we flip & he said no because if he worked for $12 an hour it would take away from his Bridge Card welfare money & his food stamps , he said he'd be breaking even if he worked for that low of pay !
I just found out 90% of this bullshit with him today , my son's both told me today that he whines & crys all the time because of the money they make & gives em the " It must be nice " speach because they both have paid off homes that the business owns but the kid wont work & jacks all his loan money off on fancy shit he cant afford , then spends every penny trying to keep up with other people who earn more than him .
My whole days been fuked up over this shit , i had no idea my own godson was a lazy welfare bum who refuses to work ,he's behind $5 grand in rent allready & if he dont pay next months rent im kicking his ass out of the house & having an accident with my wifes cell phone so he cant cry to her about how bad he's got it .