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Roger A. Shrubber

Roger A. Shrubber

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WeedFreak78 said:
My dumb, lying, cunt of a mother strikes again. She made plans to come here 3 days ago to drop off some of her crap and talk. I texted her first thing this morning to see if she was still coming. Took an hour to get back to me with a "yes". Then multiple texts of " another half hour" or "I'll be there soon" over the next 3 hours. Then I get "I'm not coming, I'm tired". WTF!!!!!? I have shit to do, I can't be waiting around for you're stupid lying ass all day. Because of that, I had to go out shopping in torrential rain, instead of earlier before it hit like I was planning, and then came home to my sump pump alarm going off because it tripped the circuit and my basement starting to flood. I should've fucking been here if it wasn't for her lies. She's a fucking useless waste of oxygen. I'm not at all religious and I've literally prayed every night for weeks she has a massive heart attack, or I do.
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listen...you can't let other people control your life, or your attitude. i know it's your mother, but you have to just cut her off for a while. just ignore her for the next week or two. let her deal with her own problems. don't let her cause you problems. don't wait for her anymore. make a time for her to be there, and if she's not there within 15 or 20 minutes of that time, carry on with your life, let her be the one that wastes her time, don't let her waste your time. she's supposed to be an adult, she's the one that should have taught you the importance of not wasting other peoples time for no good reason. apparently you have to teach her, so do it, ruthlessly.
 
WeedFreak78

WeedFreak78

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Roger A. Shrubber said:
listen...you can't let other people control your life, or your attitude. i know it's your mother, but you have to just cut her off for a while. just ignore her for the next week or two. let her deal with her own problems. don't let her cause you problems. don't wait for her anymore. make a time for her to be there, and if she's not there within 15 or 20 minutes of that time, carry on with your life, let her be the one that wastes her time, don't let her waste your time. she's supposed to be an adult, she's the one that should have taught you the importance of not wasting other peoples time for no good reason. apparently you have to teach her, so do it, ruthlessly.
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That's pretty much what I do. I will never call her again unless it had to do with something that needs to be dealt with around the house I can't do because its still in her name. I didn't talk to her for close to a month, but I've been trying to get her to come here for a couple weeks to deal with my electric. I'm getting fucked on my electric rate because i can't change my provider without her. It's costing me around $150 extra a month. So when SHE said she wanted to come i took the opportunity, I couldn't not be here if she showed up. If it wasn't so crucial to me, I wouldn't have waited. That's why I'm so fucking pissed. I'm working on, it's gonna take some time, but once I got the house, she's dead to me. Until then, I gotta try and play nice.
 
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