Hey man,I'll tell you like this,everything is not gonna happen when you want it to happen.You say you can do this,and do that,then do that,and take the first step closer to becoming independent,you gotta start somewhere,shiit your not a loser,the only way to becoming a loser is having a talent becoming something,but instead of utilizing it,you waste it,that's a loser.You 23,man up! instead of doubting youself,and becoming a "aspiring loser" your giving in to what lifes throwing at you,you may not have been delt any face cards,but you gotta play your hand you was delt anyway.Do what you gotta do,believen yourself,set goals and mash for them,and I gurentee you,you will be in a better position,and everybody on your dick.