my wife fucked me over real bad! if it werent for my kids id be in the hospital!

a while back i asked some higher uppers to remove 2 post that i made in reply of the girl of the mounth! in all honesty i didnt mean any harm by my post! i love my wife even though she fucked me up my ass with a 20in dildo! we had are fight about that post a long time ago i thought it was done and over with! well since we have had are little arguments and shit! and i will admit that i do have an anger problem! i explode i rage sometimes not meaning to ! i get help for it! now even though i got these anger problems and shit iv never hit her or nothing my anger is just verble! i yell a haller but i dont mean to and i tell her im sorry and i always kiss her ass and do everything i can to make things work with her!now a week and a half ago i agreed to go to marrige counsling! cuz i do love her! we had our first sesson last week! now i dont know what the fuck happen but friday night we were lying in bed and we had a little arguement i mean little! then out of no where she says shes leaving me on the 3rd! thats when shes gets her disability check! and that she had already told my moms that she was leaveing me! so of course i get mad as shit cuz this came out of no where! i thought we were trying to better our marrige! we just seen a consler and was soposed to go again friday! and i thought why didnt my mom give me a heads up! but shes just up and leaving! i got 3 kids that love her to death! well n-e-way saterday im fucking mad shes gettin her check for like $900 and i have $0 so i have no money t0 keep the power on for the kids or to buy them food! so i told her to give me the ring i bought her! she said fuck you! now ladies im sorry im not a women beater but i did grab her hand and try to take the ring off! i did not hit or nothing i just tried to get the ring back so i could get my kids some food and keep the power on! now she fucking goes ant takes out charges on me! saterday for assult on a female! so i go to jail for a 48hr hold then when i go to court monday my xwife comes with my daughter just to see if i get out cuz i really didnt do anything! well the juge ask my wife if she had anything to say about my realease and she fuckings says i want him to stay in jail! she said i hit her in the chest and shit! ( lie ) then my daughter stands up cryin sayin my daddy didnt hit her he was just trying to get his ring! man i starting cring my ass off when i seen my daughter crying! the juge asked i i had anthing to say! i told him i said your honer i dont know why this is going on i did not hit but she is leaving my home and i will respect her wishes and stay compleatly away from i dont have any violent offences on my record at all no assult nothing like that she has noth to fear from me! them damn juge says alright $2500 bond! im like fuck i dont have that ! thats $375 with a bondsman but i dont got that ether! i just got out yesterday! but i got cusdudy of my kid and iv never been with out them like that so iv done nothing but cried everyday cuz not being able to see my kids and the few min. i could talk to them on the phone i cried even more cuz they were cryin plus just hereing ther voice but not being able to hold them! i just think its really fucked up how this all went down like i said i dont even know what happend cuz we just started marrige consling! so im a little depressed and shit but i feel more betrayed then anything! ok i understand even though i was only tring to get the ring! i should not have put not finger on her but still its not like i hit her or bet the shit out of her! but im really hurt cuz she didnt have to keep me in jail knowing my kids are at home waiting on me i really did not deserve that!now my kids hate her for doing that to me! the only reason why im out now is cuz my x wife cuzin knows the bondsman so he got me out on credit and said sha had to pay him $230 by the 3rd! so i gave about 80 dogbones and 62 30mg aderals to sell well sorry to pitty myself on yall but i got all these twisted fellins in me right now and im just tring to get them out with out getting angry! hope yall understand! all yea while i was in jail she went and took out ex parta papers on me! come on now i didnt do shit to her im fucking sorry for tryin to take the ring of her finger but damn she flipin out like if i just straight beat her down! and i swear i didnt touch her besides her hand when i was trying to get the ring! like i said even my daughter stood up and told the juge that shit! im sorry im just like pulling my hair out my head you know! my moms and sisters say that they think she pysco and that id should never had merried! but to be honest i was merried 9 yrs to my last wife but with her for about 13 1m 31 now and to be straight up i got 3 kids 1 girl 9 2 boys 8 and 5 i got cosdudy of them but me myself im scared to death of being lonely and by myself! to some of yall that might sound like a punk but i love my kids and i will always be there for my kids! but i caint stand lonelyness its to depressing i beleve everybody should have a compainion in life! im not talking about kids well always have our kids but the othe person who we can lay in bed with at night and fall asleep watching tv and shit! whats wrong with that! going to bed every night by your self is just to depressing for! well she did me that way so i got to acept my loses and move its fucking sad! well yall be cool

o buy the way she told my mom about my crop so it got destroyed ( so sad )

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Yes, respect her fucking wishes, jerk ass. You gave her the ring, she owns it, not you.

Here's an idea: Get the fuck off drugs(unless they're prescribed by a PhD), get a job, and take care of your kids.

Sounds like you really need to get your shit together(or maybe you're in the process). I'm not trying to be mean or rude.... But fuck, you got kids and shit, act responsibly, be a man, suck it up, and do what you need to do.

Damn bro. That sucks. Sorry to hear it. I had a feeling that woman was trouble. I wish I knew what to tell you about your money problems, but the best thing you can do is forget about her. And come the 3rd have a girl there with you. It'll deffinately irk her and make feel like shit like she did to you. Sorry about our troubles bro, but you'll get through it.

TeaTreeOil said:

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Yes, respect her fucking wishes, jerk ass. You gave her the ring, she owns it, not you.

Here's an idea: Get the fuck off drugs(unless they're prescribed by a PhD), get a job, and take care of your kids.

Sounds like you really need to get your shit together(or maybe you're in the process). I'm not trying to be mean or rude.... But fuck, you got kids and shit, act responsibly, be a man, suck it up, and do what you need to do.

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damn dude im not on drugs! those dogbones and adeerals are perscrbed to me i take very good care of my kids and im always ther for them no matter what! i know i gave her the ring! and that i was in the wrong for that but i never laid my hands on her and shit since weve been merried but she went to extreams putting through that shit and about haveing my kids put in a foster home! and im sorry if i didnt write my thread the right way cut my a little slack! stay cool bro

Marriage is hard and we all make mistakes.... Yea it soundslike u messed up.. left some nasty post on the forum... fine... but to take it to the point of ruining a marriage and separating the childen thats just stupid. You two are still young, 31 i think you said, so i think her responce has alot to do with being immature and not know how to express the hurt she felt when she found your post.. (BY THE WAY... WHAT DID YOU SAY IN THAT POST? WAS IT VOULGER?!?!) Anyways it sounds like you did everythnig you could to help the situation.... you even removed the post, i mean does she smoke?!?! she sounds really uptight.... Anyway, your family is in my Prayers and i hope you two can come to an understanding with out giving up on your marriage, this arguement even at the point its esclated to, is just not worth it.... Is this your 4-5 year of marriage!?!? they call those the hardest...

Keep your head up dude!!!!

damm thats alot of shit to go thru

never fight with your kids around.

CrackerJax said:

never fight with your kids around.

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I wish my brother learned that lesson. My niece is a little 5 year old bitch because she saw and heard so many fights between her parents.

Louis541 said:

Damn bro. That sucks. Sorry to hear it. I had a feeling that woman was trouble. I wish I knew what to tell you about your money problems, but the best thing you can do is forget about her. And come the 3rd have a girl there with you. It'll deffinately irk her and make feel like shit like she did to you. Sorry about our troubles bro, but you'll get through it.

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thanks man! things have been rough! iv done all i can to please her even though we have our fights! now i will be straight up! i caint work i got some mental problem that prevent from working ! im not retarded ! im bipolar i have adhd sosialphobia which means i caint be around people when im around people i start getting real nervous and axcious i caint really talk to people not even on the phone! my wife was doine all that! but thats over with! im not crazy its like iget get scared of being out! now like if i met someone i i get to know them then im fine ! thats why i was able to get merried and have kids! but i got binder & binder working on my disabilty case if i go out to eat at a restrunt i got to set at a booth wit my back faceing everybody so i caint see them! if i go to the store to get food i try to get in and out! now yall might think im crzy but im really not i just have problems being around alot of people! hell i caint even take a piss if someone is in the bathroom ( not at home ) like at the store! crazy aint! but please dont think im crazy yall im actuly a laid back guy! i just stick to my self and play with my kids!
the kids our mine she was just a stepmom! i have full cusdody of them

Yeah...I want to know what this post was.

1puff2puff3puff said:

Marriage is hard and we all make mistakes.... Yea it soundslike u messed up.. left some nasty post on the forum... fine... but to take it to the point of ruining a marriage and separating the childen thats just stupid. You two are still young, 31 i think you said, so i think her responce has alot to do with being immature and not know how to express the hurt she felt when she found your post.. (BY THE WAY... WHAT DID YOU SAY IN THAT POST? WAS IT VOULGER?!?!) Anyways it sounds like you did everythnig you could to help the situation.... you even removed the post, i mean does she smoke?!?! she sounds really uptight.... Anyway, your family is in my Prayers and i hope you two can come to an understanding with out giving up on your marriage, this arguement even at the point its esclated to, is just not worth it.... Is this your 4-5 year of marriage!?!? they call those the hardest...

Keep your head up dude!!!!

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this is my 2nd marrige! weve only been merried a little over a year! she is the stepmom i have full cosody of my kids and i wouldnt take anything in the world for them! but yea our merrige is completly over she took an ex prta on! i dont know why! i never harmed her in any way befor this is the only time i touched her when i tried to take the ring back! and yes i know i was wrong and i should not have done it but she did nit have to do what she did ither! that was very vendictiver if i was not out of jail by friday social services was going to put my kids in a home!

MEEE TOO... I am i woman so i know we hold on to things forever (there are things i bitch my husband out about that happened 7 years ago!!!) and i not saying its right... its just our genetics.... if what you said was really bad she has been just fuming about it since then.......

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this is my 2nd marrige! weve only been merried a little over a year! she is the stepmom i have full cosody of my kids and i wouldnt take anything in the world for them! but yea our merrige is completly over she took an ex prta on! i dont know why! i never harmed her in any way befor this is the only time i touched her when i tried to take the ring back! and yes i know i was wrong and i should not have done it but she did nit have to do what she did ither! that was very vendictiver if i was not out of jail by friday social services was going to put my kids in a home!

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Wow that is fuxed up!?!?! Yea she is going in bitch mode..... But she had NO RIGHT to envolve your children.... and BTW i dont believe you are wrong for trying to get your ring... ITS YOURS... she doesnt want to be married anymore what the hell does she need the ring for... i would have got my ring too so my kids can eat.....

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this girl was asking for votes for a high times mag. all i said was YOU GOT MY VOTE! there was a pic with her holding this 6ft blue bong blue is my favoerite coluer so all i said is I SURE WOULDNT MIND IF YOU LET ME TAKE A HIT FROM THAT BONG-- OR BLUE BONG thats all that was ever said

All the dude said is he would let the girl take a hit from his bong. I remember it because at the time I told him tell her to get over it. I personally think you're better off without her. You were wrong for trying to take the ring off her finger, but she was wrong for not giving it back in the first place. She's a bitch bro. She must have some severe fuckin mental disorder. You don't need that in your life.

WOW and all this........ is she a little off?!? Yea immaturity at its finest.... i thnk i would have smacked you in the back of the head.. lol but thats it....

Wow sounds like a fucking bitch to me. Wat do u see in her man ... Oh ya the kids

not even the kids... she a stepmother... Was she a good one??

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Yes, respect her fucking wishes, jerk ass. You gave her the ring, she owns it, not you.

Here's an idea: Get the fuck off drugs(unless they're prescribed by a PhD), get a job, and take care of your kids.

Sounds like you really need to get your shit together(or maybe you're in the process). I'm not trying to be mean or rude.... But fuck, you got kids and shit, act responsibly, be a man, suck it up, and do what you need to do.

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Do you have any idea how hard it is to find a job right now? Any kind of job?

I do.

Been out of work for a long time, and the jobs that ARE available are being applied for by hundreds of people. I have 15 years of restaurant experience. Usually I can walk in to a place and walk right out with a job. That's not happening anymore.

There just aren't enough jobs. Normally I'd agree with someone who says "Stop selling drugs and get a job", but these days, well... it's different. Especially when you have kids to feed.

Anyway, just my two cents.

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Wow sounds like a fucking bitch to me. Wat do u see in her man ... Oh ya the kids

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their not her kids she is onle the stepmom well not anymore! they are my kids after my first marriage faild i did what i coul to make it worrk! after my 3rd child i got fixed! then me and my wif split up and she got pregnet by another man! well i stll tried to make it work i took her back stayed by her side during the pregnetcie and raised that little girl for a yr. she called me daddy and i loved her just like my other 3! but she ended up leaveing me again she became a bad drunk and shit and i anded up winning cosody in court and the othe guy won cosody of the othe baby also but i was so upset after 14 yrs i just felt like everthing was over all i had was my kids! but i was so lonely and desprate for conpanionship so anyone who paid me attchion i welcome them so whem me current so called wife came along i merried her in a heatbear! like i said i dont want to be lonely!yall all heard 1 is the lonelest number! but i will not dear talk or call or have anything to do with her ever again