Mysticlown150
Well-Known Member
In this topic people don't know how hard it is in other countries compared to the us so they make excuses.
my wife fucked me over real bad! if it werent for my kids id be in the hospital!
- Thread starter goten
- Start date
Biggravy22
Well-Known Member
I'm an American and live in a different country. I would really like to hear what other developed nations that offer a "harder" life than that in the United States. I'd love to hear this one.
Biggravy22
Well-Known Member
Mystic Clown is light on the mystic heavy on the clown.
TeaTreeOil
Well-Known Member
See whichever side of the coin you want to see. I was just being objective. Putting kids in the middle of adult, especially parental, disputes is just plain bad parenting, and completely irresponsible. There are obviously more 'facts' to this story than the OP 'can recall'.Oh shut up. You can't offer anything positive but you can beat him down? Sounds like your typical pseudo-intellectual keyboard warrior extraordinaire.
There's nothing pseudo about me. Apparently I'm not emo enough for you.
Biggravy22
Well-Known Member
See whichever side of the coin you want to see. I was just being objective. Putting kids in the middle of adult, especially parental, disputes is just plain bad parenting, and completely irresponsible. There are obviously more 'facts' to this story than the OP 'can recall'.
There's nothing pseudo about me. Apparently I'm not emo enough for you.
Of course it is. Instead of being objective you point fingers. Instead of listening and adding something meaningful to the discussion you shoot straight from the hip with no real target in mind...you just wanted to discharge your weapon. His Ex is the one dragging There children into court saying he assaulted her. She's the one using them as a bargaining chip. Not him. So for you to jump on him calling him a bad parent makes you look like a fool. His behavior wasn't the most responsible, but for you to ignore everything his partner did says alot about your thought patterns. Hence the reason I called you a psuedo intellectual.
TheHighClub
Active Member
Fuck that bitch....................
OregonMeds
Well-Known Member
If you have a rage problem no doctor should ever be prescribing you adderal. Knock that shit off and stick to weed, that's likely to help a LOT with your rage problems. The constant swinging up and down from those will make anyone rage. Just say no. (to uppers) 
TheHighClub
Active Member
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xyKwt-2KVWI here ya go this reminds me of a great song listen up
TeaTreeOil
Well-Known Member
Maybe he did assault her, and forgot, for all he knows("assault may refer only to the threat of violence caused by an immediate show of force." like trying to restrain someone against their will). Yes, she may very well of felt assaulted, and who the fuck are you to judge her? You haven't even heard her side of it.
I don't know what his partner did or did not do. She's not here to say. Apparently she thinks he's not worth being with and made the decision to leave. He didn't like this, made a jerk ass out of himself in front of his kids, and got himself into this mess. But blames it entirely on her. Real mature. It takes two, gravy. And who's to say who was the more responsible party in this fiasco?
I'm sure he made mistakes, as surely as she did too. But unless they own up, neither will learn a damn thing from this experience.
I said he's a bad parent? I don't think so. I said he should try to do better at parenting. I don't judge people, and I'm not condemning either of them. I think all people should continually strive to do better.
I'm also saying he should have some humility(suck it up, act responsibly). Admit what he did was wrong(whatever made her feel assaulted), tell her to keep the stupid ring, and hopefully she can accept his sincere apology. That's what I'd do if it were my kids on the line. Placing the sole blame on her is not going to solve the problem, and will likely just make it a lot worse.
When arguing, often admitting some personal fault gets the other to empathize and realize their own culpability. Which leads to a happy resolution of the conflict for both parties.
I don't know what his partner did or did not do. She's not here to say. Apparently she thinks he's not worth being with and made the decision to leave. He didn't like this, made a jerk ass out of himself in front of his kids, and got himself into this mess. But blames it entirely on her. Real mature. It takes two, gravy. And who's to say who was the more responsible party in this fiasco?
I'm sure he made mistakes, as surely as she did too. But unless they own up, neither will learn a damn thing from this experience.
I said he's a bad parent? I don't think so. I said he should try to do better at parenting. I don't judge people, and I'm not condemning either of them. I think all people should continually strive to do better.
I'm also saying he should have some humility(suck it up, act responsibly). Admit what he did was wrong(whatever made her feel assaulted), tell her to keep the stupid ring, and hopefully she can accept his sincere apology. That's what I'd do if it were my kids on the line. Placing the sole blame on her is not going to solve the problem, and will likely just make it a lot worse.
When arguing, often admitting some personal fault gets the other to empathize and realize their own culpability. Which leads to a happy resolution of the conflict for both parties.
robert 14617
Well-Known Member
i'd like to hear from the wife ,hes giving us the pg version im sure theres more to it .I'm not buying his story i call BS
TeaTreeOil
Well-Known Member
The key is who he admits it to. I doubt an on-line forum is going to help resolve any conflict without actually dealing with his ex in a constructive, IRL, manner. That means not blaming her. Cut the BS excuses, and OWN UP.
Telling him to go get some more pootang to piss her off more.... Wow man, your fucking genius is epic.
robert 14617
Well-Known Member
the one disability check @ $900 more or less ,was the only income ,gotten you may want to consider getting a job
TheHighClub
Active Member
this is fuckin stupid you all are saying their is another side to the story and at the same time taking the wifes side before you even hear the other side? soo your basically contradicting yourself. could it be possible she is a psycho like millions of other women? yes it is possible I hear shit like this all the time, half the fukin time girls make shit up to get people to feel sorry for them and claim abuse to get the upper hand. unfortunately its a smart thing to do that way if she can establish a case of abuse she will always have the upper hand in court
SarcasticHobbes
Well-Known Member
a while back i asked some higher uppers to remove 2 post that i made in reply of the girl of the mounth! in all honesty i didnt mean any harm by my post! i love my wife even though she fucked me up my ass with a 20in dildo!
we had are fight about that post a long time ago i thought it was done and over with! well since we have had are little arguments and shit! and i will admit that i do have an anger problem! i explode i rage sometimes not meaning to ! i get help for it! now even though i got these anger problems and shit iv never hit her or nothing my anger is just verble! i yell a haller but i dont mean to and i tell her im sorry and i always kiss her ass and do everything i can to make things work with her!
now a week and a half ago i agreed to go to marrige counsling! cuz i do love her! we had our first sesson last week! now i dont know what the fuck happen but friday night we were lying in bed and we had a little arguement i mean little! then out of no where she says shes leaving me on the 3rd! thats when shes gets her disability check! and that she had already told my moms that she was leaveing me! so of course i get mad as shit cuz this came out of no where! i thought we were trying to better our marrige!
we just seen a consler and was soposed to go again friday! and i thought why didnt my mom give me a heads up! but shes just up and leaving! i got 3 kids that love her to death! well n-e-way saterday im fucking mad shes gettin her check for like $900 and i have $0 so i have no money t0 keep the power on for the kids or to buy them food!
so i told her to give me the ring i bought her! she said fuck you! now ladies im sorry im not a women beater but i did grab her hand and try to take the ring off! i did not hit or nothing i just tried to get the ring back so i could get my kids some food and keep the power on! now she fucking goes ant takes out charges on me! saterday for assult on a female!
so i go to jail for a 48hr hold then when i go to court monday my xwife comes with my daughter just to see if i get out cuz i really didnt do anything! well the juge ask my wife if she had anything to say about my realease and she fuckings says i want him to stay in jail! she said i hit her in the chest and shit! ( lie ) then my daughter stands up cryin sayin my daddy didnt hit her he was just trying to get his ring!
man i starting cring my ass off when i seen my daughter crying! the juge asked i i had anthing to say! i told him i said your honer i dont know why this is going on i did not hit but she is leaving my home and i will respect her wishes and stay compleatly away from i dont have any violent offences on my record at all no assult nothing like that she has noth to fear from me! them damn juge says alright $2500 bond! im like fuck i dont have that ! thats $375 with a bondsman but i dont got that ether! i just got out yesterday!
but i got cusdudy of my kid and iv never been with out them like that so iv done nothing but cried everyday cuz not being able to see my kids and the few min. i could talk to them on the phone i cried even more cuz they were cryin plus just hereing ther voice but not being able to hold them! i just think its really fucked up how this all went down like i said i dont even know what happend cuz we just started marrige consling! so im a little depressed and shit but i feel more betrayed then anything!
ok i understand even though i was only tring to get the ring! i should not have put not finger on her but still its not like i hit her or bet the shit out of her! but im really hurt cuz she didnt have to keep me in jail knowing my kids are at home waiting on me i really did not deserve that!now my kids hate her for doing that to me! the only reason why im out now is cuz my x wife cuzin knows the bondsman so he got me out on credit and said sha had to pay him $230 by the 3rd!
so i gave about 80 dogbones and 62 30mg aderals to sell well sorry to pitty myself on yall but i got all these twisted fellins in me right now and im just tring to get them out with out getting angry! hope yall understand!
all yea while i was in jail she went and took out ex parta papers on me! come on now i didnt do shit to her im fucking sorry for tryin to take the ring of her finger but damn she flipin out like if i just straight beat her down! and i swear i didnt touch her besides her hand when i was trying to get the ring! like i said even my daughter stood up and told the juge that shit!
im sorry im just like pulling my hair out my head you know! my moms and sisters say that they think she pysco and that id should never had merried! but to be honest i was merried 9 yrs to my last wife but with her for about 13 1m 31 now and to be straight up i got 3 kids 1 girl 9 2 boys 8 and 5 i got cosdudy of them but me myself im scared to death of being lonely and by myself! to some of yall that might sound like a punk but i love my kids and i will always be there for my kids!
but i caint stand lonelyness its to depressing i beleve everybody should have a compainion in life! im not talking about kids well always have our kids but the othe person who we can lay in bed with at night and fall asleep watching tv and shit! whats wrong with that! going to bed every night by your self is just to depressing for! well she did me that way so i got to acept my loses and move its fucking sad! well yall be cool
o buy the way she told my mom about my crop so it got destroyed ( so sad )
Somewhat fixed. I'm not a stickler for spelling but jesus christ...try to spell a little better and use PARAGRAPHS please.
**if English is not your first language then its somewhat forgivable**
TeaTreeOil
Well-Known Member
I barely understand him.
That's my suggestion if it happens. Not a suggestion to make it happen.
goten
Well-Known Member
ok people some of yall are gettin some little facts mixed up! now im not the best speller and shit like that so please bear with me! first off i would like to say nothing that i am sayin is a lie! this is a chat room and yall never meet
me in person so i have no reason to lie about any of this! yes i have my problems bi polar adhd sosail phobia anxity and some other shit that i caint pronouce! i take xzanx for anxity and stress aderall for adha seraqull for bi polar topamax for mod stabalizer ambian cuz i caint sleep for shit! resperidone to help my anger! alright me and my wife ben merried about a year and a half and iv never hit her! i did grab her hand and tried to take the ring
back I WAS WRONG IM SO SORRY ! but i can not change that! she did not bring my daughter to court! my ex wife brought my daughter to court she thought i was getting out at the time! but she told the juge that she wanted
me to stay in jail! my daughter stood up and said but my daddy did not hit her he only tried to get his ring back! she was crying! man that broke my heart i just broke down and started ballin! i am a good father iv never beat my
kids i go outside all the time and play with them! i put them in bed every night and give them hugs and kisses and tell them that i love them! i have full cosody of my kids! now me and my wife been argueing off and on since we
got married she ask me just the other week if i would agree to see a marrige consler i told her yes! we went with a pastor! we had our first session last week! our next one was gonna be friday! now we had just a petty
little argument friday night and thats when she had told me that she was leavein on the 3rd and she had already told my mom that also! so naturaly that blew my mind and ofcouse i got mad! i did not understand what
the hell was going on! it was her idea to go to merrige consuling so whats the deal! you just dont have one session then say ok were done! i really truely to god dont know what that the fuck man! people have their arguments
and you get mad and you might not speak for a night or something! but you just dont up and say im leaveing you and you had it planed and when i try to get my ring back she throws me in jail then social servics saying if im not out by friday my kids will be put in a home! now all she had to do was tell the juge she didnt care if i got relesed as longe as i stay away from her and the juge would had let me out with out a bond! she new my kids had nowhere to go! now none of this is exgerated this is how it happend! like i said their is absolutly no reason for me to lie to yall! oh yea while i was sitting in jail i got served with an ex parta so im at my sisters house with my
kids and i caint go home till the 3rd when she leaves! i think thaths bullshit! she knows shw has nothing to fear from me! all my anger is all verbal i get mad and all i do is yall and shit! i dont put my hands on her!
me in person so i have no reason to lie about any of this! yes i have my problems bi polar adhd sosail phobia anxity and some other shit that i caint pronouce! i take xzanx for anxity and stress aderall for adha seraqull for bi polar topamax for mod stabalizer ambian cuz i caint sleep for shit! resperidone to help my anger! alright me and my wife ben merried about a year and a half and iv never hit her! i did grab her hand and tried to take the ring
back I WAS WRONG IM SO SORRY ! but i can not change that! she did not bring my daughter to court! my ex wife brought my daughter to court she thought i was getting out at the time! but she told the juge that she wanted
me to stay in jail! my daughter stood up and said but my daddy did not hit her he only tried to get his ring back! she was crying! man that broke my heart i just broke down and started ballin! i am a good father iv never beat my
kids i go outside all the time and play with them! i put them in bed every night and give them hugs and kisses and tell them that i love them! i have full cosody of my kids! now me and my wife been argueing off and on since we
got married she ask me just the other week if i would agree to see a marrige consler i told her yes! we went with a pastor! we had our first session last week! our next one was gonna be friday! now we had just a petty
little argument friday night and thats when she had told me that she was leavein on the 3rd and she had already told my mom that also! so naturaly that blew my mind and ofcouse i got mad! i did not understand what
the hell was going on! it was her idea to go to merrige consuling so whats the deal! you just dont have one session then say ok were done! i really truely to god dont know what that the fuck man! people have their arguments
and you get mad and you might not speak for a night or something! but you just dont up and say im leaveing you and you had it planed and when i try to get my ring back she throws me in jail then social servics saying if im not out by friday my kids will be put in a home! now all she had to do was tell the juge she didnt care if i got relesed as longe as i stay away from her and the juge would had let me out with out a bond! she new my kids had nowhere to go! now none of this is exgerated this is how it happend! like i said their is absolutly no reason for me to lie to yall! oh yea while i was sitting in jail i got served with an ex parta so im at my sisters house with my
kids and i caint go home till the 3rd when she leaves! i think thaths bullshit! she knows shw has nothing to fear from me! all my anger is all verbal i get mad and all i do is yall and shit! i dont put my hands on her!