Stoney McFried
Well-Known Member
Very sound advice, and exactly what I intend to do.I'm also making him sign off both at pick up and drop off an itemized list of her belongings.If any are missing or damaged, HE WILL replace them.He lost or damaged so many of her fucking clothes and stuff,then laughed when I suggest he buy replacements.This time I'll sue.
Forget the bat. If he fucks up, do not provide him with any possible defense. You are already doing that by abstaining from weed.
I'm no expert on Family Law, but I do know that if there is a Custody Order you are compelled to follow it. Your daughter seems to have a good head on her shoulders and it demonstrates a great deal of fortitude on her part that she is willing to subject herself to that jerk-off for your sake.
But no Custody Order requires her to do anything but be present. If I were her, I would bring a book (homework would be better) and lock myself in a room the entire time I was at his rat-infested domicile. She is not required to comply with any demands, all she has to do is be there. Hopefully she will so boring to them they will stop asking to see her.
Document every visit with as many details as possible. If she witnesses anything funny going on while in his 'care,' it should be included. Dates and times are crucial. That way if this clown tries to use the law to his advantage again, you will have some ammunition.