Point in two directions at right angles, as if to North and East.
The distance something has to travel to cross the line you are pointing along with your left hand, and then cross the line you are pointing along with your right hand, increases with distance.
A jet passing nearby, a hundred meters away, would only have to cover (use Pythagoras' theorem) 142 meters to zoom passed that much of your field of vision.
It can do that in a jiffy.
A jet 100 kilometers away would have to cover 142km to zoom passed that much of your field of vision.
It would appear to pass by much slower, taking a thousand times longer to cross the same portion of your field of vision, even though it is moving at the same speed.
747 public transport jumbo jets, you've surely seen them plenty of times, lumbering slowly across the sky. They move at 600-1000 kilometers an hour, but they are so high up that they don't race passed like the nearby jet in your video.