fiance wants to put an end to my "hobby"

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spandy

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Start selling and give her the money/buy her things with it. She will be on your side after the first couple pairs of shoes.
 
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spandy

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lostNug said:
What's funny is she smokes all day everyday and she doesn't have to pay a penny for it, and then gives me shit for growing.
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Thats like someone on welfare complaining about the service they are receiving at the hosipital when they should just be glad their ass isn't out in the rain with that cold bitch.
 
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lostNug

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That's already how it is. She doesn't work, goes to school full time and I pay for everything. The grow at her house is very small, just to experiment and run new strains. So not a big deal if I shut it down and move it to the collective. I understand her not feeling safe so I can respect that. If this was a big op or my only grow then it would be another story.
 
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Chesdin

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Run as fast as you can...Or ask her to get a boob job or dye her hair a different color, her reply will be , " don't you love me the way I am" And that's when you man up and say "Exactly". Good Luck Bro
 
Doobius1

Doobius1

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Take my advice.... Turn n run!!! I have a 10 year marriage thats ending because wife cant get over my love of cannabis. I even got legal and it made it worse when I thought it would help. Her main bitch was 'its illegal'. Once legal it became 'you reek!!' Thankfully no kids. I puffed long before we met she just thought she'd change me. I put up with it for 10 constant years of nagging. Unless u like giving half ur shit away DONT MARRY THIS ONE!!!
My next women will love to smoke and grow or there wont b a next one. Mz Jill gotta sister?
 
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lostNug

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Yeah that's why I made sure my new gf would be a fellow smoker like me. Only downside is she smokes all my weed! Haaha
 
Beefbisquit

Beefbisquit

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My gf has her card, and I've applied to be her legal grower :p

She encourages me to buy better growing gear, and different strains.
 
Total Head

Total Head

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she sounds like just another chick who acts like she accepts her man but 5 months in she starts trying to change him or "save" him. she knew what was up before she said yes. HER bad.
 
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fishwhistle

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Take some naked spread eagle pictures of her now because if you decide to dump her(and shes already pushing you that way)she may get pissed and rat you and your grow out,the pics are your leverage to hold over her head.Frankly anyone who cared about you would not try to force you to do something you dont want to,+1 for dump the bitch,shes already trying to boss your ass around.
 
bigbillyrocka

bigbillyrocka

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mine isnt huge on the growing idea however still allows me to do so luckily. BUT she said "you can grow till harvest then stop for a few months then back up again." i have yet to stop cuz she sees its my medicine for happiness. i just keep telling her not to worry. her biggest complaint? the smell. so ive gotta get that wrapped up. dont ditch the girl for some grow, instead have her help you and make her read up on the interesting facts with you. knowledge is power.
 
cannabineer

cannabineer

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bigbillyrocka said:
mine isnt huge on the growing idea however still allows me to do so luckily. BUT she said "you can grow till harvest then stop for a few months then back up again." i have yet to stop cuz she sees its my medicine for happiness. i just keep telling her not to worry. her biggest complaint? the smell. so ive gotta get that wrapped up. dont ditch the girl for some grow, instead have her help you and make her read up on the interesting facts with you. knowledge is power.
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Banking on changing a woman is an extreme sport, the relational equivalent of free-climbing El Capitan. A successful completion is EPIC, but the failures are uniformly terminal. cn
 
bigbillyrocka

bigbillyrocka

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cannabineer said:
Banking on changing a woman is an extreme sport, the relational equivalent of free-climbing El Capitan. A successful completion is EPIC, but the failures are uniformly terminal. cn
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very true, but same goes for when they say they can change a man. some can, some cant. maybe she ought to partake with him and feel the vibe...
 
Filthy Phil

Filthy Phil

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Wow, this is hard dude. Everyone says "get rid of her" thats bullshit. You love her and you would never forgive yourself if you just ended it without trying anything. But, like people said, if she loves you she should be more understanding. obviously what you need to do is calm her worries and effectively counter her arguments. I would reccomend two tabs of extacy, and a well prepared speech. Or better yet, a tab amd a half, half for you, full one for her. She should be more open to talking by the end of the night....
 
olylifter420

olylifter420

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your wife has got you by the balls bro!!!! there is no way i would be with such a woman! No matter if she is good in the sack, i couldnt... you have to be the man of the relationship and take charge man, your woman is controlling you big time!!!!



davecave said:
So my fiance thinks that I have a problem, she thinks I'm addicted to growing bud. She doesn't want me smoking either cause of my job, possible random ua's. She thinks that since I grow and usually have atleast an ounce of prime dried and cured herb in the house that I will never stop smoking. What she doesn't know is that I've passed ua's with synthetic before but she would flip if she found out I was doing that behind her back. She's been hitting me with these ultimatums lately, growing or the relationship, and honestly I'm having a hard time choosing. I think that weed is wrongfully accused of being dangerous, I also believe in its medical value, and I've succeeded in not selling bud to people I feel are affiliated with violent criminals and I am very generous with my herb as well as I believe that's good karma. What should I do???
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Warped1

Warped1

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Wow OP..I guess I'm lucky my old lady smokes more than I do. Look man, it all comes down to how much you love her, and how much you can put up with. I can tell you right now, she wouldn't be my old lady. I wouldn't ask anyone to change their lifestyle just to be with me.
 
lime73

lime73

Weed Modifier
If you give in every time .... then your fucked!
A woman is never completely satisfied and by giving in.... is just wrong ...she will start up again or with something else after.... that I guarantee...nip it in the bud now!
For small things in life ,yes, better not to argue.... but this is different....obviously he has a passion for growing his own meds, and is not harming anyone....so ....What 's the problem ?...Women haha
 
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