f#ck, I BROKE the golden rule, and now I pay for it

melkor33

Member
You have to remember these people you were friends with are robots. I can't handle people who don't have the ability to think for themselves. You're better off without them...
 

DrBudbud

Member
Well I did it, I broken the golden rule. After about 7 years of smoking and growing mary jane, I finally decided to tell someone I had some weed to smoke, and I totally regret every bit of it.

So I was going to a party, I went to the party. I brought some weed with me. Now I dont usually bring weed with me to parties, or smoke it ever around my friends, or even tell them I smoke it, quite frankly because none of my friends really smoke weed. They are the ignorant type that think weed gives you cancer, and all the government propaganda has filled their minds with lies. So I thought all these 7 years I thought "Nah, if I tell them they are really close friends, they probably wont tell anyone else, but they will have changed views on me."

But tonight was different, I thought I would roll up a joint and smoke it with one of my closest friends whom ive known 10 years, since elementary school even. I was thinkling " hey ill tell him it isn't bad, let him have a toke, he will like it (of course) and then ill have a good smoke buddy friend" Bad Idea.

So im at the party, just me and him sitting out there on the balcony, I have my nice macanudo premium vintage cigar (we both smoke cigars), im having a good time. So I whip out the weed, and some rolling papers. My friend, who is such a weed birgin is like "Whats that? tobacco or something?" I said its weed. then he just fucking EXPLODES, " HOLY SHIT< WEED???!?! YOU SMOKE THAT STUFF, WHOA!!!" and im all cool with him im just like "Yeah Ive been smoking and growing for 7 years haha, I mean its really not bad for you or anything, after 7 years im still fine aren't I? wanna smoke it with me?" I gave him a bit too much info right there, woops.

He avoids this stuff like the plague, starts lecturing me on how bad weed is, and how I will die at the age of 30 because I smoke weed. He then confiscates the material from me stating "No, I wont let you have this, I can't let you mess up your life like this" (Of course im laughing my ass of right now)I just tell him "dude give it back, I have a shitload more, ill just smoke that, confiscating this won't really do shit, your not a better person for taking it form me even if weed was bad for you" But he takes it anyway, flushes it down the toilet, comes back, looks really accomplished and proud of himself. And then starts talking to me again about how bad smoking weed is.

A this point im like, alright, he hates weed, whatever. I tell him to just not tell anyone (not that I need to, he is a close friend), because I have a reputation amongst my friends as a person who does not smoke weed, at all.

So I leave the party, gotta get home. Going to class the coming monday. This girl I know, kind of a goody goody person, still a great friend, looks at me in disgust saying "I cant beleive you do that shit", then walks off, is seemingly pure disgust. im like "WOW WHAT THE FUCK?!?!?!" I got a lot of that that day, a lot of people have changed views on me. Apparently a lot of people around here don't condone the smoking of weed. People around here of course, dont look at me as a weed smoker, at ALL. infact most dont even knwo I smoke cigars or anything, most people think I dont even drink. People came up to me, concerned, asking me if Ive had a drug problem, I just pretty much said the whole day "I dunno what your talking about" Im not about to admit I smoke weed to the masses, with the connections I have around places, the news would eventually reach my parents, teachers, worse.

So My friend pretty much told a group of people, who told people who told people. I got some insiders info from a friend, whom said my friend was LECTURING people on how I smoke weed, and how im such a druggie and a bad person because of it. Even though I told him not to tell anyone, even though he shoulden't have. All of this coming from a close friend, Fucking sad.

Of course the news reached a few of my stoner friends, not too many of them around here, but they were coming up to me like "DAMNN BRO, you smoke!??!?! After all these years why didn't you say anything? We should go light up this joint after school man!" etc etc.

So I guess I formed a closer bond with a few people, at the price of having perhaps hundreds of people look at me like some sort of druggie.


So the golden rule was broken, I hope NONE of you, that want to keep your weed smoking a secret, tell anyone at ALL that you smoke weed, or the word will get out, and a lot of friendships will be destroyed.

Its really a shame, all of these people that thought I was a totally different person now have their views changed completely on me.

Its really a shame what my friend did, and Im not a big fan of revenge, but It seems like a great option right now.
Dang man, that must hell of suck! I know how you feel though, i smoked one ime and within three hours the entire school knew and i was labeled as the "pot-head" of the school. If you really want to make a point with your friends though you should show them the movei "the Union" it talks about how 'bad' weed is. Just a fun fact coffee kills more people then weed, thats right weed has NEVER killed ANYONE or ANYTHING. The 30 joint monkey test and loseing brain cells, is a complete myth, the monkeys were sufficated, thats how they lost all their brain cells, anyways. I wish you the best of luck!
 

spliffendz

Well-Known Member
I'm a closet toker too, there are certain "associates" that i don't tell, but i can't class them as friends. And that guy isn't telling everyone, thats how chinese whispers combined with gossip works.....

Just remember everytime the story gets told, someone will add another bit to it...

'This dude, like he grows pot, and grows it in a factory, and he masturbates a lot, and prays to the devil........'
 

Woodstock.Hippie

New Member
that made more sense than theirs?

An interesting observation is that when you take away a person's logic, they are left with emotion.

Make them aware when you observe.
 

Mr.Therapy Man

Well-Known Member
My responce is rational,Id beat the so called friends ass and keep doing it every time I laid eyes on him.That how I handle my problems,Id teach that mouth running punk what will happen the next time he decides to spread some gossip
 

kronic1989

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Your friends must be hard to hang out with. I dont assosciate with people who think they know it all, and think they are the shit. Someone like that, that would take your weed, flush it, then preach to you how bad it is and whatnot, when they havnt smoked it before. And they dont know shit.

your friends are real stuck up bro. THey all sound like little bitches. I got sick of clapping bitches in the face like that right after highschool, just removed them from my life, no matter what it took.

Go talk to your friends that smoke,and chill with them, if they are any better.
 

swazifarmer

Well-Known Member
Sounds like you need to meet some smokers NOT too many all my friends smoke and my close one's know I grow and the problems with that is they always want bud I nearly got arrested bring them shit I had to pay the cops a bribe and the cops took my weed :cuss:
 

Azgrow

Well-Known Member
fun loving hippies or gang bangers,
not sure how this implies to smoking weed....very clearly sounds like your saying the only people who gather together to enjoy canibus is hippies or gangster's???is this the kind of person you are when it pertains to smoking weed? if not why would it be so for other's?sounds like your friends arn't the only ignorant one's...az
 

Sjerpsy

Well-Known Member
Damn if you are living a double life just to be friends with these people is it really worth it? Go hang out with the stoners from time to time...I used to get this in high school....I remember being wacked out on Mushrooms and this chick saying to me "Oh its different to see you sober for a change!" I just looked at my buddy and was like...yea...heh....
 

vtguy429

Well-Known Member
For real, you have a strange life my friend.. I had people I didn't let know I smoke back when I was like really young and people had yet to be corrupted, but in high school, it was well known fact that about 90% of the school was an everyday smoker or atleast did it on occasion.. That sucks, I have a cousin just like the friend you described, because all the false propaganda he has a preconceived notion that marijuana is terrible but yet he will smoke cigs, cigars or pipe tobacco, makes absolutely no sense to me, as i am the exact opposite, i would be flushing your cigs down the toilet if it were acceptable haha.. How you kept that shit from people for 7 years though, I will never know... I can be a secretive stoner, but I wouldn't lead a double life, thats why I corrupted all my goody goody friends at a younger age haha, i didnt wanna deal with that shit.
 

JN811

Well-Known Member
ya the golden rule is definetly not to tell anyone you grow, lol good story though you should write a book I usually lose attention half way through long posts like that . Well the way I see it is, a friend with weed, is a friend indeed. Lol, tell your friends to chill they sound like their a bit overkill to me. It not like you offered anyone crack, or meth or anything like that. Mayb you should just make some friends that smoke, like all my friends, lol definetly a diffrent crowd but I don't hang out with gang banger or hippies just normal people who enjoy the occasional toke!
 

Cakk

Member
WOw that is not cool of your mate to do. I think its better slowly break in the news of me smoking to my friends cause they aren't totally against it just wont smoke with me.
 
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