Here's where the truth comes out. If you can't see this, there is no hope for you.
Your closing line sums it all up: "I want to be a human being who associates with those who wish to associate with me." Well, you don't get that luxury -- nobody does. You're a part of a society. That society includes lots of people you don't want to associate with, but must -- the illiterate single mom, the HIV-positive junkie, the man working two McJobs to feed his family, the homeless guy you ignore on your way to the office, the pregnant teenage girl, the illegal aliens you employ to keep labor costs down -- you are not an island, Mr. Libertarian, and you need us and government far more than we need you.
BTW. I do not wish to associate with you. Your holier that thou attitude exudes elitism. Anyone that states everyone has an equal chance in this society is fucking crazy. You may be one of the lucky ones that worked his ass off, got an education and got somewhere. For every one like you, there are thousands that did the same and are nowhere. I've witnessed hundreds of hard working individuals that always had to struggle to keep their head above water, and some of those have sunk or are sinking at present. So just for your information, I was one of the above. No-one ever gave me a goddamn cent, no trust fund, no inheritance, no lottery wins, just hard ass work and bills to pay. So go on with your braggadocio, you aren't fooling me, you got fucking lucky.