So buy licking all around the clit first shell want it more and then i strike with a good ninja tounge lashing
how long usually does it take before shes ready for the direct clit toungein? And how long till they cum usually? Is this a gaurenteed orgasm thing if your good at it?
The clit is one of the major female nerve centers on the female body, nipples and gspot are the other 2 (for the most part) .. That said, gently tease until she's into it, then swirl the tongue, open up the flood gates, and hold on tight as you go to town. If she grabs the back of your head, don't panic - that's a good thing, and is a sign she wants it/is really into it, she's not trying to kill you. Every woman can have different times to reach oral climax, if you've been with a woman for a good while, you would know exactly what works best and it can be extremely fast (less than 4 minutes) or if you attack her while she's sleeping and crawl between her legs.. 25 minutes or more of foreplay may be required before you hit the button and her body is trembling. That said, once you hit that point.. don't stop, but don't pick up intensity.. maintain the same and use fingers at the same time for a prolonged one, and/or multiples. If she's completely out of breath and collapsed on the bed.. you know you did well - until that point, don't stop.
As for being guaranteed, for the most part - yes. Some women do not have an extremely sensitive clit and you have to harrass it in other ways.. namely - using the 'pop rocks' candy in your mouth while gently sucking on it, using ice (not directly on the clit, in your mouth) and letting the warm/cold water swish over it as you gently suck on it.. etc. Padawan was right, I should start writing the book.