Every woman likes it a different, promise you that.. (18+ year pussy eating veteran speaking) That said.. foreplay is key, do not hammer the clit until such time as there's more than enough stimulation, and then go gentle with it, tease it, work around it.. then slowly work for it - if you rush it, she will notice this.. and unless it's a quickie, slapping it with your tongue violently from the start is a good way to get punched in the face if their clit is more sensitive than normal. Use of fingers to trace the vaginal walls, and if your fingers are long enough.. gently rubbing the g-spot is a good way to get the job done.