No need to be fussy about the vehicle which you have been given just because you can these days... A guy which dresses up a bit like a girl and wants to have some fun with other guys is cool, thats a choice... Don`t take me for one of those gay nazis lol However, this just seems like denial to me.
Here you are talking about Homosexuality ... and need for attention .... as per psychological identity issues.
(I understand this avenue in thinking ... but believe that a person willing to go under the knife ... is suffering from gender identity issues.)
gender identity is not a sexual identity
And if your stating that someone needs to do hours of makeovers on their body just to like their vehicle I would beg to differ! But I guess I can`t state that point as most of the "normal people" are spending shitloads on cosmetics and clothing. What I said is in an idealistic world where everyone accepts each other for what they are and what they look like. But even so, I can`t see any point in this gender change.
There is no such thing as normal nor idealistic ... please think about this.
Most people spend tons of money on the exterior .... to emulate something.
Within the existing system ... you are perceived by your image (first impression)... 'humans are visual ... hence still naive ... in how they process important stuff'.
You dress to make yourself feel good .... that is certain .... but look in your wardrobe.
Who do you wear ? I bet everything about you is about ... 'who you want to be like ..."
and what is accepted in your circle.
This thought process is programmed into your psyche ... by your parents, school, tv.
Having something removed and your chemistry ... reprogrammed ... is different.
What I would add is that I was once a person which didn`t love myself once upon a time. Its up to the individual to digest what he sees, accept it, be grateful and finally love themselves. No make up or mumbo jumbo is needed!
To know one's self ...
Is the most powerful lesson to master. There comes great strength in self confidence, you are very lucky sir. As a straight male, I also feel lucky ... this makes my life so simple ... in terms of my own sexuality .... I certainly do not know myself. 
But I have a good idea.
But what if .... our heroes at hand ... have realized the same thing .... and IS trying to get
there .... ?
Love the discussions on RIU. Everyone has a point of their own!
