.such a LOVELY way to start my day.
Nice sympathy play there, Babs.
I told you who you are Kat? Really? Where? If you look back on these posts where it is you who initially posted "to me"..it is crystal clear that it is "you" telling me who I am.
Let's see... I suggested you lived a sheltered life as you've "only" heard the word "cunt" come from a gay man's mouth, and I said you must really have a problem with gays (actually, I believe I said something to the effect of "lifestyles outside of the societal norm") to make the statements you made; those are difficult to refute as you posted those statements here, in black and white. You, on the other hand, proceeded to tell me the "facts" about myself based on your opinion about sexuality, about which you are absolutely wrong. Such as...
Look Kat, I appreciate your honesty here with your
excursions............but
truth is truth. You just
ARE one or the other. When it comes to preferences,
you are "either or." Bisexuality falls into play of just "playing." There IS such a thing as peference.
I guarantee you though.........that girl was no lesbian
[I'm willing to bet she never claimed to be] and had she not been brought up in such a fucked up environment, she would have
never had a single encounter with another female.
My take is that you are either inately attracted to either your own or the opposite sex.........
anything else is just PLAY.
What you choose to do with your personal life is your personal business.
I am only stating the facts. There is always a preference.
Yeah, you're right... you never once told me who/what I am. Just the "facts" eh?
OK, I've hung out with far too many gay men for you to state I "obviously know nothing."
I wasn't talking about gays. I was talking about bisexuality, as a part of what is known as the GLBT Community. More to the point, I freely gave myself as an example... mind you, in the attempt to explain to you the whole "en vogue" concept you falsely have about "most" people "trying on homosexuality" nowadays. (Your words, Babs, not mine.) You see, I'm able to grasp the difference between "homosexual" and "bisexual" whereas apparently you don't. More to the point, you refuse to acknowledge the existence of one, which I am and told you so, yet you still insist that I'm wrong about myself (after all, the "fact" is that I'm "either/or" and anything else is "just" PLAY... ring any bells?).
I repeat: you obviously know nothing about what you're spouting.
...and I never accused you of calling any one a name or referencing to Morgen's "substance".. YES, please do re-read
And I never accused you of accusing me of calling anyone a name or referencing Morgen's "substance" either.
I really don't know where you got that from my above statement.
*sigh* From your posts.
I was referencing to HIM and YOU used it as an opportunity to jump in to the conversation....
It's a public forum discussion, to which I chose to add my points for clarification.
just to harangue me, I might add.
Yes Babs, that's exactly what I did, exactly what I always do... go around "abusing" others just to "harangue" them. It's my M.O., dontcha know. Do you play Victim IRL Babs, or do you reserve this just for the Internetz?
You so completely misread.
No, that would be you. Consistently, it appears.
This is why I have skipped out on reading any posts on this thread for awhile now. So many of you have already formed your opinion COMPLETELY about those of us who believe in God and WHAT it is we believe.
And you don't ever form your opinion about those who don't believe in a god. Now I see you form your own opinion about homosexuals and bisexuals as well, put the label "fact" on your opinions, and then expect others to just nod emphatically... when they are what you claim does not exist.
One can only bang their head against the wall so many times before waking up and smelling the coffee.
Kind of like how I've continued to give you the benefit of doubt, in spite of your outbursts and constant jabs at those who dare to contradict anything you say? Yeah, I'm done with that wall. My head hurts.
There are no "discussions" on this thread.
No discussions that are to your liking, at any rate. HINT: This is a thread about atheism, yet you feel the desire or need or right (or whatever the hell it is) to repeatedly post in here with smug little remarks and (poorly) "veiled" insults.
Never once have I witnessed any proclaimed Christian chime in so they could proselytize.
Never once have you witnessed me rush into threads about Christianity just so I can tell the Christians how wrong they are, and make stupid little jabs at them any opportunity I get.
Every last time a fellow believer dared to post, they were jumped on like prey from others. Please, there are no discussions on this thread....just attacks already formed because of pre-judgment.
Oh, please! Your role of Victim is a willing one when, again, you come into a thread about atheism in the first place.
Questions are posed to a believer, but an honest answer is not what is sought on this thread, as has been evident.
Honesty is all we've sought in this thread, from ourselves and from anyone else who "dares" to post.
It's really getting old watching the "come-back" from the atheist to demand that a believer prove God.....otherwise they are "stupid."
It's really getting old watching the "come back" from the believer to demand that an atheist prove there is no god... otherwise they are "stupid"... oh, and "damned" as well.
That was solely my response to how confusing I found it that you were breaking apart my every sentence in defense mode....no need to be that way with me.
You broke apart my existence. But there's no need for me to "be that way" (defend myself and who/what I am) with you, eh?
There is no desire on my part to bash gay people...NONE. Why you are attempting to note me as homophobic is ridiculously laughable. Again, you are telling me who I am, not vice verca.
Refer to my response above RE: who's telling whom who/what they are. According to you, I don't even exist.
You state that you "were having a discussion." A discussion entails asking questions when in doubt, not just emphatically and falsely accusing others of their beliefs.
Did you do this for me, or did you simply tell me that I can't be bisexual, because, after all, the "fact" is that a person is "either/or" (gay or straight) but no in between, because that is "just PLAY."
Sorry if as I stated "verbatim" that I feel there is always a preference offended you...sheesh.
"Always" being the key word. "Fact" being another key word. "Truth" as well. All stated by you to me, about me. But no offense should be taken, huh Babs? SHEESH.
I did listen....or rather read.
Apparently not. You seem to "read" what words you want to be there.
Again, I don't know why you find it so offensive that you feel this need to put me on a stand. AGAIN, I told you that you were "wrong"...about what? You lost me Kat.
You're the one who's lost.
I told you positively nothing about
yourself. Why are you getting so defensive with me?
*sigh*
Kat, there was not a single second of my posting last night where I was being stubborn.
Sure Babs, sure. You're right, I'm wrong, end of story. Happy now?
In fact, one of the first things I said was that it was later for me than you. I was on my way to bed.
And I said in my first post of this particular discussion that I was tired at the end of a long Sunday day/evening, hence the probable rambling, etc. Your point?
I promise you the last thing on my mind was telling you who you are or ANALYZING you
I call bullshit.
..the Dr. Babs comment, along with some other choice words you threw out were just outlandish...and so very uncalled for. I wish you would see that.
I reserved myself from using choice words I truly felt and thought about your entire display of ignorance and stubbornness. Trust me on that.
When in doubt, ask me.
In other words, give to you what you refuse to give to others.
Had I known in advance that by my merely posting was going to create such havoc, I'd of gone to bed earlier........dayum.
Break out the violin, everyone! Are you a reincarnation of Mozart, per chance?
Sorry.....I can't tell you if you're gay or straight. I don't have enough information to guide you there.
I spoon fed you the fucking information! My request for a diagnonsense from you was sheer sarcasm. Look it up.
That was just low Kat. I reserve that kind of response from cj.
Ah yes, the Demonic CJ... who's been kinder to me than probably anyone else on RIU, though I've never once asked for his kindness. And just a little FYI, no, he and I do not agree on everything; maybe half of our beliefs/positions are the same. I simply don't go making shots below the belt when I don't agree with him; probably why he's never been rude to me. You should try straight shooting sometime, Babs. You may find that you are better received.
There was no "discussion"....just one accusation after another from you.
Oh.My.God.
"Ignorance" is defined by the beholder who portrays themself as knowing something to be absolute truth.....
Such as using "fact" and "truth" and "either/or" in your statements about the honesty others freely give about their personal lives in order to help someone like you understand something instead of spouting "facts" pulled out of your ass?
that being said, every last one of us posting here is ignorant in that case.
Some are more ignorant than others. Willfully, might I add.
Post 1, 938---
....I do not pretend to understand any single thing in all its complexities.
Actually, it was post 1,937. And if you don't pretend, then you must be "playing for reelz" because you sure as hell "understand" that I am "either/or" but can't be in the middle... that's all just PLAY, after all.
Now, as I preview this mess, I see that you've distracted me from the fun I could have been having on this forum I've so come to love. You've taken up quite enough of my time. More than enough.
One more little FYI: Your belief in God has absolutely nothing to do with how infuriating you are. Rather, it's your smug attitude that gets people so damn frustrated. You make your assumptions about others based on your opinions stated as facts, with nothing to back up your facts aside from your uninformed opinions, then wonder why everyone's "haranguing" you. Cry me a goddamn river.
To everyone else: I genuinely apologize for the dramatic disruption. I make no excuses. However, the fact is that some people simply bring out the worst in others.