i went with the easiest remedy right now
i removed the 4 that popped off and soldered wire directly to strips. Then i wiggled the rest to see if any appeared loose, there were 2 more that were barely hanging on, so i also removed those and soldered the wire to strip
i left the others alone, hopefully they hold up for the next 2 months, ill pull them down after this run and remove connectors and solder all of them
lights out in 15 mins, which sucks, i had plans of getting both controllers setup and running. Ill have to wait until 6 hours from now i guess lol