Yeah, I just never sold crack, never will. Neither has nor will my wife.
It's probably the kind of mutual understanding that explains why we don't have to monitor each other's decisions. We knew each other before marriage and trust each other after it. It's been good.
I think you missed the point, but anywoot
Most marriage are about a give and take. Its not about monitoring anothers decision. Kind of confused why you would use that terminology. Certain things I bounce off my wife to see how bad or good of an idea it is...same with her. I recently told my wife I was going to the next rally to protest the protest. She thinks that is a stupid idea and will make sure my ass don't go out of town in the near future, Nothing about her monitoring me. Its called being in a marriage and sometimes somebody has to be the voice of reason.
I would disapprove of my wife if she took money from a company that she helped to bankrupt and also lied about donation money to get a loan. Same way she would disapprove of me doing something illegal.
Oh and thank you for not selling crack.