Listen, I get what you're saying. I really do. For a large portion of my life I did just that. I grew up in an area that was predominately white, and I have white friends to this day that I consider family. But I also had friends growing up that I was not allowed in their house, and they couldn't come to mine. I've been followed simply because I drive a particular car. I've had my qualifications questioned at different places of employment. I couldn't prove it, but I'd be willing to bet that I've been denied employment because I'm black. I could on but I think you get the point. Try walking around carrying this literally every day of your life. I am at a point to where I'm gainfully employed and very secure in my employment, so I've decided that I don't have to play that game anymore. If you don't like me because of my race, as long as it doesn't affect my bottom line, I have no desire to try and change your mind. I spent a lifetime trying that, and nothing seems to change.