But you are going out of your way to reinforce those views. To use your analogy, that is like saying "yes" to sex, pretending to enjoy the sex, and then still calling it rape because "it's not your job to educate them on the fact that they are wrong about you", specifically your desire for sex. I am saying wear whatever you want, say "no" to sex when you don't want it, and if a guy says "Then why are you dressed that way?" I am telling you to explain to him that wearing skimpy clothes does not equate to consent. To attempt to educate him on reality so he won't go on believing an inaccurate stereotype, to make rape less likely in the future, for everyone, not just yourself. You are saying: "They had a stereotype that because I dress skimpy, I must want sex, so why not give them what they want? It's not my responsibility to change their stereotypes!"