To catch a predator

[Orchid Man]

i feel as thou once u get to prison for a crime like that they put u in a cell with a known prison rapist and walk away... If they did that id say alot wouldnt commit the crime a second time...

 

[jsn9333]

i feel as thou once u get to prison for a crime like that they put u in a cell with a known prison rapist and walk away... If they did that id say alot wouldnt commit the crime a second time...

That *is* what happens in prison.

 

[jsn9333]

But it makes no difference.He should have the common sense not to talk to a person that says they are that age in a sexual manner.And obviously, you haven't been around a lot of 15 year old girls nowadays.If he can't say, no, I'm going now...and THEN, is still led to come over and see whats up, then he is a danger, because he can be coerced into fucking an underage girl.

So what if he would fuck a 15 year old girl if she begged him too? Big fucking deal. A man like that is not a predator. In that situation *she* is the predator, knowing how horny the guy is and begging him to do her.

Who are you protecting by putting him in jail? Horny 15 year old girls? Girls who actively seek out men like that are going to find someone to fuck, you do know that don't you? Maybe she'll have regrets, maybe she won't. So if age of consent is 16 at that state, she magically becomes someone with no regrets on her 16th birthday? Age is the wrong way to look at this issue. If a girl is past puberty and is sexually mature and can think for herself, then let her act like it.

This country treats people like they are babies until they are 21. Back in the day people only fucking lived until their 20's or 30's. People can grow up fast. And they would, if this country would just let them. The logic of our laws is shown to be as stupid as it is when you think about the fact that young men can die for their country at 18 but can't buy a beer at most places in this country.

If I was 19 or whatever and some 15 year old girl found me online and kept trying to keep me from getting offline and finally seduced me to come over to her house... I wouldn't consider myself a child molester. I would consider myself a 19 year old male.

When the show catches predatory molesters of pubescent or pre-pubescent children, it is doing good and I applaud it. When it entraps hormone crazed young men by initiating relationships with them, preying on them with women old enough to be sexually mature, and hanging *adult* women out the door begging them to come in, it is doing bad.

So the show does some good and some bad. I don't know how often it does each... because the contractors who make tons of money convincing these guys to come to the house are not willing to release their full transcripts, and the show itself only shows us excerpts of what goes on.

 

[matthew]

I have no problem with executing such people either... if it can 100% be proven with 100% reliability each and every time with never any error at all. The problem with the death penalty is, as with everything mankind does, sometimes errors occur. Life in prison allows those errors the most chance of being corrected. You would no longer be pro death penalty if you were the innocent person who ended up there simply because of the color of his skin and he was in the wrong place at the wrong time (which still happens A LOT in this country).

As for entrapment, it is defined as inducing someone to commit a crime that they otherwise were "unlikely" to have committed without your inducement. The court ultimately decides if entrapment occurred, the constitution doesn't get into the specifics for each possible case.

Like I said, the show catches many people who need to get caught, and for that I'm thankful. However, given that they are motivated by a very high paying network and advertisers to get as many guys in there as they can, they most likely entrap some of the people.

Also, like I said, I have seen where a guy was uncomfortable with the situation and wanted to get offline, and the girl kept baiting him in and tempting him to keep going. This guy would've not done it if she hadn't had entrapped him. That is wrong. It is especially wrong when the guy is 19 and she is saying she is 14 or 15 (and looks 18 when he sees her).

Would I ever screw around with a 14 or 15 year old? No, of course not. But I'm just saying entrapment is always wrong, and it is especially wrong when the lines are blurry (in some states consent is okay at 14, etc.).

When the show profits off catching predators who prey on children, that is fine. I'm all for that. When it profits off preying on and entrapping young men who otherwise would never have gotten into that trouble... that is wrong.

I am with you on the death penalty but I have no problems with pedophilia being a capitol offense. Also you are missing the point about entrapment. If a 13 year old flat chested little girl walked up to me and offered me 1 trillion dollars to have sex with her I WOULD NOT DO IT because I find it sickening to think of children in a sexual way. If you show INTENT to have sex with children you are just a guilty as the guy who shows up with duct tape, a hunting knife and a shovel. Pedophilia is not curable, sure some people suppress it their whole life but once you have crossed that line and entertained that idea I have no problem ending you myself.

 

[jsn9333]

I am with you on the death penalty but I have no problems with pedophilia being a capitol offense. Also you are missing the point about entrapment. If a 13 year old flat chested little girl walked up to me and offered me 1 trillion dollars to have sex with her I WOULD NOT DO IT because I find it sickening to think of children in a sexual way. If you show INTENT to have sex with children you are just a guilty as the guy who shows up with duct tape, a hunting knife and a shovel. Pedophilia is not curable, sure some people suppress it their whole life but once you have crossed that line and entertained that idea I have no problem ending you myself.

What if the girl was not flat chested, but in fact looked to be 18 or 19, had the most awesome, supple, developed set of tits and ass you've ever seen? If you were 19 you probably wouldn't ask her if she was 13 years old. That's all I'm saying. And if there was no one else on the planet for you to care about what they thought of you, or if there was only fat, old, ugly women, then would be tapping that in about 2 seconds.

I'm not justifying Pedophilia. That is a sick disease and those people should be put in jail for life. But what I'm saying is that we shouldn't define pedophilia with an age. Some states define it at 18, other's at 14 or even 13. That is ridiculous... you can walk a mile across state line and go from being normal to a pedophile who deserves to be executed?

I knew both guys and girls who had pretty much fully passed puberty by 13 or 14 years old... shaving every day, voice had changed, etc. Then again, I knew of 18 year old girls who had not even had their first period yet.

Pedophilia is a sexual disease and should be defined sexually, as desiring sex with sexually un-developed people. It shouldn't be defined by an age.

 

[Seamaiden]

You know what's interesting is how cultural mores can so seriously color people's interpretations of things like "pedophile". 100 years ago a 12yo was "of age" to give consent to marry, and women didn't have a vote. Now we have kindergartners being accused of sexual harassment for having a crush on a pretty girl and giving her a kiss. Somehow people seem to think that culture trumps evolution, which indicates to me that there is very little empathy or comprehension of our complexity as animals. Culture cannot trump evolution, or if it does, it can only go so far.

 

[Seamaiden]

What if the girl was not flat chested, but in fact looked to be 18 or 19, had the most awesome, supple, developed set of tits and ass you've ever seen? If you were 19 you probably wouldn't ask her if she was 13 years old. That's all I'm saying. And if there was no one else on the planet for you to care about what they thought of you, or if there was only fat, old, ugly women, then would be tapping that in about 2 seconds.

I am 5'1" tall, a size 8, and use a 36D (or sometimes DD) cup. I am almost EXACTLY of the same proportions I was at age 10, my breasts were slightly smaller at a 36C. I was often mistaken for someone 16-18yo, yet at that age I still thought boys had cooties. I still had my Barbie dolls, but had my period as well.

 

[B..]

all the girls pose as 13 and 14 year olds, most of the guys arent lonely, how many of them had wives, kids, girlfriends? they are chasing a sick fetish they have to sleep with an innocent child. if you are over 16 a 13 year old shouldnt be on your mind, im 30 now and i wouldnt even dare sleep with a even 16-17 year old, they are children still they have a totally different mentality, these guys were travelling hours and hours, asking the kids if they can have sex with animals and drink their blood that is definitely a predator. that just isnt right, im glad chris hansen exposes these people, they should know better. the best 'reality' show on tv by far

 

[Twistyman]

toast the pedophiles..... but, lets face a fact..Little girls and boys are sexually curious..my problem is WHERE are the parents...... WTF is a young child doing unsupervised on the net anyway, lock outs, comp. in common area...etc... Go to any mall or corner store and look at how the girls dress... if I had a daughter at that age she sure as shit isn't going to walk around looking like that.... YES toast the pervs....but teach and monitor the child...

 

[matthew]

What if the girl was not flat chested, but in fact looked to be 18 or 19, had the most awesome, supple, developed set of tits and ass you've ever seen? If you were 19 you probably wouldn't ask her if she was 13 years old. That's all I'm saying. And if there was no one else on the planet for you to care about what they thought of you, or if there was only fat, old, ugly women, then would be tapping that in about 2 seconds.

I'm not justifying Pedophilia. That is a sick disease and those people should be put in jail for life. But what I'm saying is that we shouldn't define pedophilia with an age. Some states define it at 18, other's at 14 or even 13. That is ridiculous... you can walk a mile across state line and go from being normal to a pedophile who deserves to be executed?

I knew both guys and girls who had pretty much fully passed puberty by 13 or 14 years old... shaving every day, voice had changed, etc. Then again, I knew of 18 year old girls who had not even had their first period yet.

Pedophilia is a sexual disease and should be defined sexually, as desiring sex with sexually un-developed people. It shouldn't be defined by an age.

All the chat logs are on the web, they make it very clear that they are underage.

 

[jsn9333]

All the chat logs are on the web, they make it very clear that they are underage.

Like I said, most of the people who get caught by the show deserve to have their nuts ripped off. The guys who initiate with and pursue the girls deserve what they get.

I'm just saying there are probably a few who get entrapped. There was a guy who committed suicide after being on the show, and NBC settled the lawsuit and paid off his family (probably millions of dollars) rather then allow the public to see what all goes on in how they run the show. The family had media ethicists and a lot of testimony ready to prove that the show cares much more about profits then about pedophilia (surprise).

I don't know... I don't really care. I'll never find myself in that situation, so I don't feel sorry for idiots who fall for the trap. But all is not *always* what it seems on T.V., I'll leave it at that.

 

[anhedonia]

The show is sick. I think Chris Hanson has has voyeristic intensions. They parodyed his character on south park it was hella funny.

 

[SocataSmoker]

You know what's interesting is how cultural mores can so seriously color people's interpretations of things like "pedophile". 100 years ago a 12yo was "of age" to give consent to marry

Yeah, 100 years ago... in the past sweetie, and besides, the average lifespan was only up to 40 years old back in those days, of course you'd want to get married sooner. Maybe 200 years ago we could've had sex with 6 year olds! But hey, if you want your 12 year old daughter getting married and mounted that's on you, as for me, I'll stick to what society and myself believe to be right. Times change, get with the program.

 

[matthew]

Like I said, most of the people who get caught by the show deserve to have their nuts ripped off. The guys who initiate with and pursue the girls deserve what they get.

I'm just saying there are probably a few who get entrapped. There was a guy who committed suicide after being on the show, and NBC settled the lawsuit and paid off his family (probably millions of dollars) rather then allow the public to see what all goes on in how they run the show. The family had media ethicists and a lot of testimony ready to prove that the show cares much more about profits then about pedophilia (surprise).

I don't know... I don't really care. I'll never find myself in that situation, so I don't feel sorry for idiots who fall for the trap. But all is not *always* what it seems on T.V., I'll leave it at that.

Ya, that actually happened about 2 hours from where I live, I am glad the guy did it and saved me the tax payer a little cash. I don't know how this is not cut and dry, it is made clear in the conversation that the girl or boy is underage, if you show even intent then you are guilty of knowingly soliciting a minor.

 

[Stoney McFried]

Why?You know its gonna get you some trouble.Lots of these guys are in their thirties and forties...can't you think with something other than your cock?

So what if he would fuck a 15 year old girl if she begged him too? Big fucking deal. A man like that is not a predator. In that situation *she* is the predator, knowing how horny the guy is and begging him to do her.

Who are you protecting by putting him in jail? Horny 15 year old girls? Girls who actively seek out men like that are going to find someone to fuck, you do know that don't you? Maybe she'll have regrets, maybe she won't. So if age of consent is 16 at that state, she magically becomes someone with no regrets on her 16th birthday? Age is the wrong way to look at this issue. If a girl is past puberty and is sexually mature and can think for herself, then let her act like it.

This country treats people like they are babies until they are 21. Back in the day people only fucking lived until their 20's or 30's. People can grow up fast. And they would, if this country would just let them. The logic of our laws is shown to be as stupid as it is when you think about the fact that young men can die for their country at 18 but can't buy a beer at most places in this country.

If I was 19 or whatever and some 15 year old girl found me online and kept trying to keep me from getting offline and finally seduced me to come over to her house... I wouldn't consider myself a child molester. I would consider myself a 19 year old male.

When the show catches predatory molesters of pubescent or pre-pubescent children, it is doing good and I applaud it. When it entraps hormone crazed young men by initiating relationships with them, preying on them with women old enough to be sexually mature, and hanging *adult* women out the door begging them to come in, it is doing bad.

So the show does some good and some bad. I don't know how often it does each... because the contractors who make tons of money convincing these guys to come to the house are not willing to release their full transcripts, and the show itself only shows us excerpts of what goes on.

 

[tnrtinr]

I am torn on the subject. I like the premise of it because those guys are sick fucks - but I think it is entrapment. At no point do they see or talk to a minor. No crime has been commited in my eyes. .02

I also think "bait cars" are entrapment as well.

 

[Orchid Man]

That *is* what happens in prison.

Not for the majority. The majority go into protective custody or whatever. They are put on yards with de'briefers. Witch are ex gang members kissing ass to escape the gang thats tryin to kill them(in most cases). So they arent all that much in fear...

 

[SocataSmoker]

I also think "bait cars" are entrapment as well.

The NOPD is using bait cars against the homeless, leaving cigarettes and food on the dash... I find it sickening, but these people have already committed the crime in thought when they say "I want to lick your 12 year old asshole"... and not only say perverse things, but show up at the house expecting to get some, they're as guilty as can be.

 

[Orchid Man]

Bait cars isnt entrapment... and I have been convicted for joyriding for snatching a bait car. They charge you with grand theft auto, but u can talk it down to misde joyriding. I mean u steal u steal. doesnt matter if they set it up. You still stole the motherfucker... And yes i feel dateline is entrapment, but a child molester souldnt have ne rights to begin with...

 

[40acres]

I heard in ohio the age of consent is 15.

















Someones moving to cleveland.