"Patriotism" > Nationalism, "Our responsibility" to you, equates to Nationalism... Responsibility to hold public elected officials accountable for the things they promise and the things they do is Socialism/Nationalism/Communism..
You don't understand what these terms mean, you are equating them with things you disagree with because the media tells you to. You are hating perceived opponents of your beliefs based on incorrect information, unsubstantiated claims, and simple bigotry.
The United States military is 100% socialistic. You pay their salary, you pay for their health and recovery, you pay for the wars we wage, and you pay for their education when and if they decide to use it.
What do you call it when corporations and government collude?
How does this apply to our current conversation?