Just slow down!
First off, you made a hot mix even hotter and then dumped nutes on top of that and right after a transplant. Bad Juju and you burnt them ... bad.
You're really creating more problems than you're solving trying to put out fires that may or may not exist and I'm sure the hydro store will be happy to sell you more stuff to dump on them.
The lime will take at least a couple weeks to start doing anything, so don't get impatient and try and 'fix' it. Give it time and learn to be patient.
How about just water for a few weeks and give the girls a chance to catch their breath? Not 'sips' of water either, but till a good bit runs out the bottom. In the shower is good for this.
No neem, no EJ, no nothing from the hydro store. You might have root aphids, you might not. There are plenty of beneficial bugs that live in the soil, not all are bad.
You are loving your plants to death.
Wet