ugh... just broke up with my girl...

give the virgins a miss next time buddy,even if they love you they always gonna wonder if they missin out on anything, im speaking from experience here, i went out with the same chick form when i was 15 till just before i turned 22, i thought we would be together forever,but it was destined to fall because she thought she was missing out on the fun part of her life when she should be dating a bunch of different people.
Look for someone whos had a few relationships,they more than likely over that crap already,and have figured out what they want out of a relationship, just my 2cents, goodluck bro,try not to let it get you down,at the very least there are people here on RUI that care

Yeah, it sucks. Just be thankful you got sucker-punched and not shot.

And don't sweat it. 1. It obviously couldn't have been love, 2. there are 3,000,000,000 women on this planet and 3. you're still young... With a 3fer like that, I'm thinking your odds are pretty good.



Karma rules the Universe. Good luck.

wow it really is nice to hear these things...

actually she might be pregnent right now. she was worried about that last week. and she already has had three miscarriages with me. she said before she would never be able to have an abortion.... how fucked up would that situation be huh? but coming from a broken home if she is pregnant i would try to forgive her and hopefully she would want to but i would raise the kid in a real home. and i wouldnt fight or nothing. that shit fucks kids up for real...

and to jimisimortal... i think you may be right now wanting to experience things. before she met me she was a popular girl with parties every weekend. she was the head cheerleader who dated the prom king and football captian. i was somebody not near that. i had my few friends and was happy with tht. i actually had alot of enemies. then when she met me she became part of my world mostly. i think she missed her old way of life better.

I bet she does miss it...but after a while she'll see the error of her ways, and you'll have moved on...kinda vindicating in a way.

Just keep your head up bro!

Oh, and while not being able to smoke sucks, alcohol can be fun too! Maybe just a take a shot or two and loosen up your head a little. But not too much--then you'll go doing stupid shit you won't remember/will regret.

Oh and +rep for the stuff about taking care of the kid no matter what. Props.

keep your head up man. it's too bad you can't smoke, that's got me through more breakups than I can count.

the weather is looking up, maybe go on some day walks or hikes, they really help clear the mind.

Jerry Garcia said:

I bet she does miss it...but after a while she'll see the error of her ways, and you'll have moved on...kinda vindicating in a way.

Just keep your head up bro!

Oh, and while not being able to smoke sucks, alcohol can be fun too! Maybe just a take a shot or two and loosen up your head a little. But not too much--then you'll go doing stupid shit you won't remember/will regret.

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Oh and +rep for the stuff about taking care of the kid no matter what. Props.

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yes a beer or two would really help. lol definately not too much. dont wanna be an emotional drunk and thanks for the plus rep... right back at ya.

poplars said:

keep your head up man. it's too bad you can't smoke, that's got me through more breakups than I can count.

the weather is looking up, maybe go on some day walks or hikes, they really help clear the mind.

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lol im near chicago... rained all last night and snowed this morning. hopefully itll warm up. i love walks

Dude... I'm terribly sorry you are going through this.

The situation sucks. The girl shat on you and you can't dull the pain with the blessed herb.

This could be a blessing in disguise. Hear (read?) me out.

Take the pain. Embrace it. Power through it without the aid of any mind-altering substance and you will come through it a stronger person.

I'll send a few good thoughts your way today. Best of luck to you.

thanks for the good thoughts johnny

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That's why God made prostitutes...... and cocaine.

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And herpes...

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yea..damn.....that does suck....but now you can get over it...atleast you found out what kind of person she is now instead of being married for 7 years and then finding out....I do feel your pain man....what a coward to hit someone when you are trying to talk things out...or at least find out wtf is going on...

CreepyStevie69 said:

i just fought the guy she cheated on me with...

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she cheated cuz u got a lil memeber lol =)

CreepyStevie69 said:

youre right. thanks for the kind words. i dont plan on dwelling on this shit at all. its just... its fresh. very fresh. like about 6 hours fresh. so it still hurts not gunna lie.

where do you meet girls now a days. im too young for bars. i dont go to school. the only 2 people i work with are old chinese guys... where to go where to go...

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you can look on craigslist

Never let a bitch see you cry. She'll be back but don't take her. Best thing you could do is lead her on. Invite her over, have a romantic dinner, fuck her brains out and call her a taxi. Then have sex with one of her friends. Trust me, her friends are just as big of snakes as she is, they'll go for it.

CreepyStevie69 said:

now if only i was back in high school... there were ass and titties EVERYWHERE!

no disrespect to any girls here.

i just checked out my eye. it looks alot worse than it is. im embarrassed. i wanna drain it somehow. its pretty bad

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u see its shit like that that turns alot of guys into assholes. just hang in there bud. its obveous that u loved her, but she didnt love you. and theres no point in beating yourself up over sum chick who was a smut anyway. i know what u mean though, if my girl did that i wouldnt date for a while. i would most likey be an asshole for a couple of years but i'd get over it. and you will too. dont worry about it man. time heals all wounds

That's why they are called "crushes". It is only avoided if it goes both ways...


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So you're near Chicago?? COINCIDENCE??!! South Side baby!!! That's where I'm at and that's where I'm from. I HATE motherfuckers that think they can steal someone's broad, and then sucker punch him on top of it! If you're still feeling salty in a couple days, PM me. We'll talk. Oh and the snow's melting already. Crazy weather today and yesterday.