You think Child psychology books will help you raise your child? Most of those books are full of shit! Also don't go judging other peoples parenting styles over a single or a few instances. Be a mommy or a Daddy day in and day out, whether or not you feel good or are having a bad day it don't matter. Sometimes we like to indulge our children and there's nothing wrong with that. i was raised by parents who indulged me and were
kind of easy on me and I thinkI turned out fine. I work hard and am a responsable person. Also why would you post a message to your sister in law here?
yes i do think it will help. i didn't know how to grow weed until i started reading about it. i didn't know how to read until a teacher taught me. humans are born with the least amount of instincts in the animal world earth. we learn almost everything. i said they are great parents but the child will become a problem sooner than later. it's already started.
i will learn from experience, sure. but for you to say that books are bullshit is prob some sort of rational for your lack of reading. i was spoiled but had a firm hand of retaliation when i acted out.
my dad once gave me some change after lunch. a couple pennies or so. i threw them on the ground. he told me to pick them up or i would never get another dollars allowance. no hitting, but lesson learned. to this day i have 4 bottles on my desk. one for quarters. one for dimes. one for nickels. and the biggest for pennies.
again - if you think you are the best, you are wrong. if you think you know everything, you're wrong. if you refuse to read, you will remain ignorant.
and when i become a daddy - i will do so on my own accord, planned out with an open dialogue with my partner. we will read books on expecting, methods, take classes to learn how to be the best we can.
sister in law bit was a form of venting. can't say anything directly bc of divorce going on. i can't say anything to family or about them bc it's embarrassing. and maybe someone on here will read it and stop
