sticky situation, do I tell my girl I sorted of been on loyal to her?

sunni said:

i gave you an answer, go seperate ways , grow up a bit, enjoy life, youll find "the one" but she isnt it.

i had this one boyfriend man i was crazy for him..we first dated in grade 9, up until grade 11, than we broke up for a few years..and we would always end up getitng back together
whether it was for a week or , a few days...
the last time before i finally put my foot down and say no this is it we dated for 9 months.

i thought maybe because we were adults things would be less toxic but he was terrible to me.

he was always always very jealous..
i was called names for 10 years by this guy..
i was treated like dirt... i would make dinner, every night or mostly every night just to be screamed at..

i remember he smashed my phone

on thanksgiving i made this huge dinner for us, he never showed.

he was always so late to coming over to my house, unless he needed something from me. I knew he was suffering from depression so i tried to help to the the best of my abilities.. i got him a job (full time) , i gave him well over 2000$ , i paid for his cellphone bills, gave him everything i could without going broke myself.
bought him work boots, new things like xbox controllers.

he was just so fucking angry all the goddamn fucking time.

screaming was never fucking ending... finally i said goodbye...and it was rough because i wanted to run back so badly..but i just couldnt do the emotional torture toxicity anymore, we had so much history i wanted ot be with him i thought, but sometimes people click in every way possible but really,,they dont treat eachother nicely.

anyways when i did finally say goodbye, he harrassed the shit out of me, called me so many times i couldnt use my phone, i had to change my phone number, he would sit outside my apartment door, leave me notes..

i loved that guy so much i still kept his last note on me just to remind myself of this

i ran into him before i left for alaska, he told me he was sorry and that he loved me , he wanted to marry me to get better, hes happier now, and that he never meant to hurt me..and how much he loved me, and how its ALWAYS been me..no matter the other people hes dated hes never let go of me..

2 weeks later he was fucking my "friend".

and i found out by her postings on facebook, see this guy would never let me publically be in a relationship with him i would ask him to go on movie dates whatever NO he would curtly say
he would never take selfies with me or do anything publically with me.

but he was slapped all over her facebook wall

i know from time to time he likes to stalk rollitup enough to read my posts so i hope he reads this

youre a fucking liar..you do not love me..and you fucked some fat bitch named kelley have fun !

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tyler.durden said:

Great read, thanks for sharing...

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sunni said:

i gave you an answer, go seperate ways , grow up a bit, enjoy life, youll find "the one" but she isnt it.

i had this one boyfriend man i was crazy for him..we first dated in grade 9, up until grade 11, than we broke up for a few years..and we would always end up getitng back together
whether it was for a week or , a few days...
the last time before i finally put my foot down and say no this is it we dated for 9 months.

i thought maybe because we were adults things would be less toxic but he was terrible to me.

he was always always very jealous..
i was called names for 10 years by this guy..
i was treated like dirt... i would make dinner, every night or mostly every night just to be screamed at..

i remember he smashed my phone

on thanksgiving i made this huge dinner for us, he never showed.

he was always so late to coming over to my house, unless he needed something from me. I knew he was suffering from depression so i tried to help to the the best of my abilities.. i got him a job (full time) , i gave him well over 2000$ , i paid for his cellphone bills, gave him everything i could without going broke myself.
bought him work boots, new things like xbox controllers.

he was just so fucking angry all the goddamn fucking time.

screaming was never fucking ending... finally i said goodbye...and it was rough because i wanted to run back so badly..but i just couldnt do the emotional torture toxicity anymore, we had so much history i wanted ot be with him i thought, but sometimes people click in every way possible but really,,they dont treat eachother nicely.

anyways when i did finally say goodbye, he harrassed the shit out of me, called me so many times i couldnt use my phone, i had to change my phone number, he would sit outside my apartment door, leave me notes..

i loved that guy so much i still kept his last note on me just to remind myself of this

i ran into him before i left for alaska, he told me he was sorry and that he loved me , he wanted to marry me to get better, hes happier now, and that he never meant to hurt me..and how much he loved me, and how its ALWAYS been me..no matter the other people hes dated hes never let go of me..

2 weeks later he was fucking my "friend".

and i found out by her postings on facebook, see this guy would never let me publically be in a relationship with him i would ask him to go on movie dates whatever NO he would curtly say
he would never take selfies with me or do anything publically with me.

but he was slapped all over her facebook wall

i know from time to time he likes to stalk rollitup enough to read my posts so i hope he reads this

youre a fucking liar..you do not love me..and you fucked some fat bitch named kelley have fun !

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Gary Goodson said:

I'm sorry...

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sunni said:

i gave you an answer, go seperate ways , grow up a bit, enjoy life, youll find "the one" but she isnt it.

i had this one boyfriend man i was crazy for him..we first dated in grade 9, up until grade 11, than we broke up for a few years..and we would always end up getitng back together
whether it was for a week or , a few days...
the last time before i finally put my foot down and say no this is it we dated for 9 months.

i thought maybe because we were adults things would be less toxic but he was terrible to me.

he was always always very jealous..
i was called names for 10 years by this guy..
i was treated like dirt... i would make dinner, every night or mostly every night just to be screamed at..

i remember he smashed my phone

on thanksgiving i made this huge dinner for us, he never showed.

he was always so late to coming over to my house, unless he needed something from me. I knew he was suffering from depression so i tried to help to the the best of my abilities.. i got him a job (full time) , i gave him well over 2000$ , i paid for his cellphone bills, gave him everything i could without going broke myself.
bought him work boots, new things like xbox controllers.

he was just so fucking angry all the goddamn fucking time.

screaming was never fucking ending... finally i said goodbye...and it was rough because i wanted to run back so badly..but i just couldnt do the emotional torture toxicity anymore, we had so much history i wanted ot be with him i thought, but sometimes people click in every way possible but really,,they dont treat eachother nicely.

anyways when i did finally say goodbye, he harrassed the shit out of me, called me so many times i couldnt use my phone, i had to change my phone number, he would sit outside my apartment door, leave me notes..

i loved that guy so much i still kept his last note on me just to remind myself of this

i ran into him before i left for alaska, he told me he was sorry and that he loved me , he wanted to marry me to get better, hes happier now, and that he never meant to hurt me..and how much he loved me, and how its ALWAYS been me..no matter the other people hes dated hes never let go of me..

2 weeks later he was fucking my "friend".

and i found out by her postings on facebook, see this guy would never let me publically be in a relationship with him i would ask him to go on movie dates whatever NO he would curtly say
he would never take selfies with me or do anything publically with me.

but he was slapped all over her facebook wall

i know from time to time he likes to stalk rollitup enough to read my posts so i hope he reads this

youre a fucking liar..you do not love me..and you fucked some fat bitch named kelley have fun !

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sunni said:

haha theres so much to that story but shit i thought id make it somewhat short..

i guess what im trying to say is

theres a difference between that one toxic super passionate relationship that just fucking toxic.

than, someone you genuinely would never want to hurt passionate loving and caring ...that is healthy

ive had both...they are so different.. o. O thankfully i married the second

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JamesWolverine said:

I know how you feel from what I can tell when he said he was sorry if he didn't go with your friend and tried long enough and stayed loyal you probably would of gave him another chance, difference is we both love each other we were faithful to each other for 3 years until this stuff happened I just want to get married to her I promise I never meant to do this I just made a mistake. Our main problem is her parents which causes fights.

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JamesWolverine said:

I know how you feel from what I can tell when he said he was sorry if he didn't go with your friend and tried long enough and stayed loyal you probably would of gave him another chance, difference is we both love each other we were faithful to each other for 3 years until this stuff happened I just want to get married to her I promise I never meant to do this I just made a mistake. Our main problem is her parents which causes fights.

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mr sunshine said:

I got off probation/ turtle mode a few hours ago. I must say , I feel reformed.

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Singlemalt said:

Now I'm really curious. Sunni, James what about nudie mags? Say James whacked off to Miss August, is that cheating?

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mr sunshine said:

I got off probation/ turtle mode a few hours ago. I must say , I feel reformed.

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sunni said:

sorry perhaps i was not clear

after 10 years on/off of being called names like cunt, slut, whore fucking loose, goof, etc
i had enough i left....

he apologized, i had already moved on with my life.

there is no difference, i loved him lots..he loved me lots
he was an asshole who has anger management issues and an inability to control them, he was never unloyal to me, he thinks cheaters are fucking disgusting pigs


yay sorry i couldnt fix it for you

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JamesWolverine said:

You people on this forums are really immature (not everyone) but some of you are old adult men and you act like 2 and then when I start trolling and don't post serious shit people cry.

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mr sunshine said:

I got off probation/ turtle mode a few hours ago. I must say , I feel reformed.

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tyler.durden said:

Yeah, what was that all about???

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tyler.durden said:

Yeah, what was that all about???

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