(Sadly) I have to make some weed go bad, help

NightSpider said:

Well I have to find a reason for why the weed delivery is going to be late to give a very unreasonable person who will not be convinced with anything less than mold

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So you're asking for assistance in deceiving someone over some weed? Tell them the damn truth. You don't have any weed for them. Why concoct some elaborate lie? That's pretty pathetic.

xtsho said:

So you're asking for assistance in deceiving someone over some weed? Tell them the damn truth. You don't have any weed for them. Why concoct some elaborate lie? That's pretty pathetic.

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Have you ever met an unreasonable (Reason-> reasoning (required for him to understand what you ask me to tell him)-> reasonable -> UNreasonable) person?

And fuck no I am not deceiving him in the way you imply, I do not have the weed he expects anyway, I am not doing this to not give him weed. I am gonna rot a bit of my own stash ffs, you people love making assumptions.

NightSpider said:

Have you ever met an unreasonable (Reason-> reasoning (required for him to understand what you ask me to tell him)-> reasonable -> UNreasonable) person?

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I live with one and it's a she not a he.

Seriously though. Why even deal with someone if you can't be honest?

Because he is a friend I love and have no problem with, but he is someone who is always a bit too on the edge and fires up quickly. He is working on it but me wanting to have the person in my life does not mean I have to accept him get fired up talking to me. I'd rather find ways to mitigate things that will trigger his stress rather than fight all the time and have to cut him out of my life.

NightSpider said:

No man wtf, I am gonna take it to him, show him the smelly bud, tell him its unsmokable ,the batch is lost, he will have to wait for the next one because he is very unreasonable and will give me headaches for any other reason I might give him. Noone will smoke it lol

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Still you put up a masquerade....

You should force a conversation to makehim understand why you think he is unreasonable. Thats not fun. But it's a solution! If you stophiding to him that you think he is "unreasonable"... then he stops bugging you. Maybe he changes, because he never knew what you really think before.

Whateverstop masquerading. Be honest! Say what you think. Thats easiest way of dealing somebody "unreasonable".Just show it! They are going to be pissed as hell, that works

CheGueVapo said:

Still you put up a masquerade....

You should force a conversation to makehim understand why you think he is unreasonable. Thats not fun. But it's a solution! If you stophiding to him that you think he is "unreasonable"... then he stops bugging you. Maybe he changes, because he never knew what you really think before.

Whateverstop masquerading. Be honest! Say what you think. Thats easiest way of dealing somebody "unreasonable".Just show it! They are going to be pissed as hell, that works

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That is good advice and it is how I'd like things to go, but this is a very bad time and this is gonna be very bad news for him and he is struggling with a lot of stress so I do not think this is the right time for it. But everything you just said, I agree

NightSpider said:

Because he is a friend I love and have no problem with, but he is someone who is always a bit too on the edge and fires up quickly. He is working on it but me wanting to have the person in my life does not mean I have to accept him get fired up talking to me. I'd rather find ways to mitigate things that will trigger his stress rather than fight all the time and have to cut him out of my life.

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Oh good grief. Drop the drama.

xtsho said:

Oh good grief. Drop the drama.

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I will not, for that is the situation I am in right now. Thanks for the input though

You need to be honest with this guy and with yourself, life is too short to play games like this. Sounds like a toxic relationship.

Just teach him that this is not just material worth some money, but that you put your time and effort into, and you want to share it with someone who values it the same than you do, and have a great time enjoying it, good relaxing conversations, - or whatever it is, i dont know you - and theres a lot of good dope out there, that he can find others..... maybe he gets the point. with that you still show him the rspect that you not dislike him just because he is unreasonable.

I think you mean disvaluing the results, beeing ungrateful, as if it was easy, cheap, "nothing". Sure it's not.

I mean if you show him molded buds and say, oh all got rotten, you cant smoke that, i dont even have enough for me...some day in the future it going to be the same. How long do you want to continue that ?

Well if he as angry as you say he is make sure he doesn't have a gun on him when you hand him the moldy weed.

Is this a Dr Phil or Jerry Springer thread?

I haven't seen any chairs flying so I'm leaning Dr Phil.

People, I get your point I really do and I do appreciate the good advice. But like I said, this really is not the right day for that. There will not be a next time like this and there has not been a similar deception before. This really is a special position, a pinch, if my english is correct. You might think this is a typical excuse I am making. Cant think of a way to prove right now that it is not. I got what I came for, I am on the correct path to some moldy weed haha.

Tumble it long time... remove any remaining pistels with a tweezer.... give him that and say, i dont know something went wrong, strange genetics or some heck ... or drip it in alcohol to wash off any bang

Never a good out come with deception

Buy some catnip

Autodoctor said:

Buy some catnip

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At least this is traditional. Maybe some nice oregano.

Anybody else thinks this sounds a lot like the guy who wants to screw over his trimmer?

Time to grow some balls lol