Dude, why are you even asking us if your just going to come back at each answer with I don't want to lose my house, just don't do it! If u are that worried u shouldn't do it because people who get as scared as you are right now fold under questioning by the police. They will see that fear and tear u apart, seriously, they will have u admit to it to try and plea out of it and their goes your house. If u decide to do it though, I don't think their is one place in the USA that would take your house for one plant and if anyone told u that they are full of shit. 1-4 plants here in WI is nothing more than a posession charge. If I go down to Illinois I could have up to 50 plants and get probation, if I didn't have any charges already... Everyone said this a million times already, it is no big deal. Oh yeah and if u are still reading this, the answer to your question is un answerable, it all just depends if the cop that would find your plant wants to de a dick or not, if he does your fucked, if he doesn't your good.
I keep my outdoor to a Minimum of 2-3 females. And even if i would get caught i mean what the hell is 3 plants. It's really no biggie in my book.