Problems With The Ole Lady

My husband is the SMOKER in the family I only smoke like once a month and I paid for most of the set up, did all the research...I buy and choose seeds, I water, I feed, I give them love and all they need... and he smokes And we both love it that way!

nici said:

My husband is the SMOKER in the family I only smoke like once a month and I paid for most of the set up, did all the research...I buy and choose seeds, I water, I feed, I give them love and all they need... and he smokes And we both love it that way!

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im in a sim ilar situation but my girlfriend does the smoking. i love her, best thing thats ever happened to me.

oh my gosh guyz thanks for your input i put that on this morning and me and her fought all day about shit finally i got her to the point where she doesn't care about it...shit it would relive much tension taking care of something like that you know you get a fucking reward you can sit back and say hey i did that sure its with weed but fuck it is something beautiful.


P.S my daughter is 1 year old on dec. 1st she is truly the best thing that has every happened to me. If I thought there was gonna be heat over a few little babies growing i would not even think about doing it. I would never endanger my daughter.

Tough subject. This has me scratching my head more than any plant health related thread.

Do you know anybody who would co-grow with you? Find someone who is willing to grow with you at a location where your child doesn't live.

I don't think you would have to worry much about yourself getting into tons of trouble because of a small grow for personal use. I would worry about child protective services saying the environment is unfit for a child because of all the drug activity

I don't think it's a bad situation for a child. Just think of all the piece of shit alcoholic parents out there raising/neglecting kids and getting no flack at all. Then think about all the parents getting kids taken away from them because of people LIKE YOU... LIKE US.

It makes me sick. Alcohol and tobacco are so much worse than herb and still we are the bad guys in so many peoples eyes.

Seriously, I feel for you on this situation. I will grow as longs as I'm able to but when kids get involved (at least until laws change) I will definitely not be growing at home anymore.

Yah should i feel like a bad parent if i had just two females out in my shop...Ya know not in my domain really away from the wife and the child....i dont know i have a chance to grow coming up this next outdoor season but i want to keep just two small ladies to clone year round

Should you feel like a bad parent if it was tomatoes or strawberries? NO

It all comes down to opinion.

Phillip Morris kills millions each year with their cigarettes. Should they feel bad?

Opinions, opinions, opinions. Everybody's got them. Who is to say who is right?

Feds say no ganja. States say yes (in some cases). Who is really right?

I would normally say grow grow grow but the kid thing is whats throwing me for a loop.

Take everybody's 2 cents into consideration but remember this is your life and your call. As long as your not selling chances are nothing bad would ever come out of the situation if you decide to keep them. If you just keep things small and under control you should be fine. IMO

nici said:

my husband is the smoker in the family i only smoke like once a month and i paid for most of the set up, did all the research...i buy and choose seeds, i water, i feed, i give them love and all they need... And he smokes And we both love it that way!

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divorce him......marry me !!!!!

bazoomer said:

divorce him......marry me !!!!!

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Ha ha I will keep that in my mind for future refference.

nici said:

Ha ha I will keep that in my mind for future refference.

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lol...well bere in mind...ive got loads of cash and im'e quite well hung (yer right )!!!!!



.....ps, if youre bloke's a big bstard 4get it...i like my nose the way it is !

i used to grow when i was young in my front yard where my mom would help me out. i got a good harvest out of my first plant (over 2 lbs) and tried again only for my mother to kill my babies. this really upset me so i grew again under a desk in a storage room in the house to much success. some people just cant be persuaded. for everything else theres indoor growing.

Keenly said:

i cant tell my girlfriend im growing...
she would be REALLY gay about...

she doesnt like that i smoke at all.,...


when we first started dating it was
"oh i dont mind i would never want to change you"
i would smoke after sex and stuff

4 months later
"why do you need to do that when your with me dont i make you happy?"

this is the line that pisses me off.... its very selfish of her to say this becaues its not that she doesnt make me happy its that ALL she does is talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk
and if im not high its really irritating

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it will never end....runnnnnnn!!!!!!

my girl is ok with it.

if she didn't know that i love it she would probably prefer i didn't but then its harvest time and then she dosnt mind so much.

$$$ to spend always makes my lady happy.

money is always good to blow on munchies and more grow supplies.

I only get away with it because my GF knows that i love it soooo much. She would feel WAY too guilty about making me stop!!!!

She just said "I don't know if it would make me feel all that guilty...."

i think it was a joke....?

my girls nags at me about growing the shit but when it comes time to harvest she's all about it,,,its our girls job to bitch at us about somtin.....first we had our moms an they kept us outta trouble we moved out...then got our girls now they bitch at us an keep us outta trouble....

My GF checks and adjusts PH and other things for me when I am out of town on business. She rarely ever smokes, but takes paxil and clonazepam for anxiety and realizes that the drugs she takes are more harmful than the one i partake of.

Girls are stupid... ah, MOST girl are stupid... Once, I was a stupid girl... then I tried smokin'... four years, a house and a wedding later.. We still smoke everyday and LOVE every second of it... I think that ppl just get the idea drilled into their head for SO long that ITS WRONG... when someone with a different opinion comes along.. it totally rocks their world.. they dont know how to deal with it...


Maybe the little woman (BTW I am a HUGE HATER of "old lady") will get used to it in time... it may grow on her... ha.

Money talks... Bull shit walks..

My husband absolutely hates that I grow- but before I met him he used to smoke way more than I do and has a gigantic bong collection to show for it so I let his complaining go in one ear and out the other. I like to garden and grow plants.. doesn't matter whether they're lillies in the garden or MJ. I keep it in a place where no one goes behind closed doors and he doesn't have to see it. It gives me less anxiety to have my own source than it does to have to hunt it down and I think that he should understand and support this. He's chilled a bit since I started, but I know it still bugs him. That's okay- his addiction to buying electronics bugs me and I don't mess with him about it either.

Everyone has their thing. Live and let live, is all I'm sayin'. Even in marriage.

My wifey wont let me grow in or around the house for a while,,, got pretty intense for a while,, grew a hell of a lot of plants in a year and a half, sometimes I had 80 plants flowering at one time, I got really good at what I love to do but it was a little too intense and now I cant grow here anymore so I grow at a friends house,, problem solved....