Porn

ttystikk

Well-Known Member
So another important aspect of this conversation about porn, I think, is how you were treated by your parents (or guardians) when it came to the subject of porn or how they treated it. I remember when I was a kid first coming into my sexuality, first discovering porn, probably a little bit before I really had access to the internet, they condemned it. I remember feeling a strong sense of embarrassment the first time I got caught looking at porn. Like I did something super seriously wrong. I felt guilt and shame. So obviously I don't think that's the way to go about treating your kid when you find out they've discovered what sex is.

If I ever have kids of my own, I think I'll talk to them about sex well before they ever go looking for porn.
That will never do.
 

Strocat

Well-Known Member
So another important aspect of this conversation about porn, I think, is how you were treated by your parents (or guardians) when it came to the subject of porn or how they treated it. I remember when I was a kid first coming into my sexuality, first discovering porn, probably a little bit before I really had access to the internet, they condemned it. I remember feeling a strong sense of embarrassment the first time I got caught looking at porn. Like I did something super seriously wrong. I felt guilt and shame. So obviously I don't think that's the way to go about treating your kid when you find out they've discovered what sex is.

If I ever have kids of my own, I think I'll talk to them about sex well before they ever go looking for porn.
everything was always super open in my household. my parents told me about sex when i was about 10.. they also told me i would start getting these "feelings" and to do whatever came natural but not to actually have sex until I understood what pregnancy was and the lot. They told me not to even think about having sex until i was 16 at the youngest.

my parents didn't like have sex in front of me or anything but I knew what sex was at a very young age.. I liked the way I grew up.. everything was open and i was allowed to do basically anything. the fact i didnt have to hide things actually made me not want to do alot of bad things... everything from trying cocaine to sneaking the neighborhood whore into the house.. I was taught early on that I could do what I wanted but that there were things that could be very bad for me (cocaine etc) so I even though I could.. I never felt that rebelious urge to try because I could have done so.
 

puffdatchronic

Well-Known Member
my parents sucked in the parenting department. They kept up appearences by taking us on vacations, buying us birthday presents and xmas gifts. But that was the extent of their parenting. They were too self centrered and into their own vices to pay us any attention whatsoever. So the sex talk or any talk of sex never happened. I discovered a pornography channel one night when i was about 11, was amazed, got hard so hard and aroused I ejaculated without even hardly jerking, i just touched it a few times and came ... probably one of the best feelings in life ever. I think my parents realised what i was up to but i never got a talk about anything like that . NOw i reflect on it though, i wish i hadn't have found it. I wish I had have allowed my hormones to build up properly and that would have gave me the motivation to go after real girls. Funny actually but this is around the time I started to get the first whiffs of depression in my life. I went to big school a shell of who i used to be, never even hardly talked to a girl until i was about 20 . Had a lot of interest too, but flat out wasn't interested, was easier to go home and whack off. I even flat out rejected a really cute girl whose friends asked me out for her, in front of her, at about the age of 15. How my life would have differed if i hadn't been such a pussy, so many regrets.
 

Big_Lou

Well-Known Member
Just gonna leave this classic 70s/80s porn music here....if you close your eyes you can really picture the various acts....theater of the mind....

 
Top