You girls have no idea how much this hurt me to read. This is sexual abusive freely. If you girls laugh you have no idea about menIts a start.if he really wants to change, he'll change. Its totally in his hands.
Passing judgement, predetermined nature or learned behavior?
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Aeroknow
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micromary
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Straiight and gay men are apples and oranges sweetie. Just wanted to say I'm sorry we were just having fun.
micromary
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Aww, I feel horrible now. I really am sorry. We were just teasing u sweetheart. Plz don't b upset.
Your apology really makes a difference instead of having me keep my heart closed off. I wish that you understand that society puts a constant strain on men since we were kids to supress our emotions and you don't understand how much damage that has done to our lives to not be able to express ourselves freely. And it doesn't just affect us but women also. because if you hurt one sex you are also hurting the other.
I'm just trying to change the way I think because I know some of my ideas are not right which is why I'm seeking advice. You have to care about us if you want us to change because we are dependent on you
hellmutt bones
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Or some thing else like his butt cheeks. LolOh, wow.lmao u just have to open ur heart sweetie. Its that easy.
hellmutt bones
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Probably them chaps with his ass hanging out begging to get rammed! Ok so i passed judgment! So sue me!
abe supercro
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I like how humans make numerous unconscious decisions within seconds of a first impression. There is a micro delay until the awareness comes into our consciousness. It's not easy to not judge, it just happens.
I judge on actions too like someone smoking a cigarette near me or eating chips and drinking soda but these are things I've been through myself and I think that judging them like that has a lot to do with me which is another reason why I want to stop. And people change so how can we judge them like that?
I was speaking more on lines of
That guy mass murdered a bunch of babies and raped a lot of women
He must have some sort of psychological disorder
Not the bloke smoking a cigarette next to me
Bublonichronic
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This is the right path, often we judge other people in comparison to how we see ourselves, or what we think is right, so if you don't have a superego you will find your less judgmental overall
micromary
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Ohhhh, I feel so bad. I'm so sorry sweetie. Thought it was a troll thread. Had no idea u were serious. U made a lot of good points, and ur right I could never understand what its like to be a guy and I feel for u. Ur very brave to have shown the world ur feelings and I admire that.
well if there's anything that I can do to help u just let me know k cutie. 
Motorbuds
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Ram Dass like Rammed Ass?
It totally is.
Thank you for understanding. All I would want you to do is if you ever have sons or have a husband, to take care of them, love them deeply and don't discourage them in a world that wants them to be miserable.Ohhhh, I feel so bad. I'm so sorry sweetie. Thought it was a troll thread. Had no idea u were serious. U made a lot of good points, and ur right I could never understand what its like to be a guy and I feel for u. Ur very brave to have shown the world ur feelings and I admire that.
mr sunshine
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mr sunshine
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@IRONEYES, FUCK YOU!
Actually I don't wear one, and just an hour ago I had amazing sex with a very attractive woman, better than you could ever imagine and I have it any time I want. And she gives me a shit ton of love and nurture which is maybe why this is so foreign to you..does that piss you off?
charface
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No,
But your tastes may change.
I guess if i poked you in the neck with a lit cigarette every time you found something attractive
you may develop a distaste for it.
Or maybe you would start to sexualize ciggy burns.