Passing judgement, predetermined nature or learned behavior?

so.nice said:

Goodnight

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Sleep tight, sweet prince...

so.nice said:

I've had gay men try to hit on me especially once they knew I was straight like it turned them on more..so now when I see that look that's what I go back to and perceive them

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Wow where were u when this happened? Bar? Was there a rainbow out front sweetie?

micromary said:

Wow where were u when this happened? Bar? Was there a rainbow out front sweetie?

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I really don't get the whole strait guy fear of gay men thing.

If you get hit on by a gay guy #1 - that's a compliment.

#2 - a gay guy isn't going to all of a sudden "try harder" if you say you're strait in hopes to turn you. They have better fish to fry. Rainbow ones...

Yessica... said:

I really don't get the whole strait guy fear of gay men thing.

If you get ht on by a gay guy #1 - that's a compliment.

#2 - a gay guy isn't going to all of a sudden "try harder" if you say you're strait in hopes to turn you. They have better fish to fry. Rainbow ones...

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Lol I know right.

Think they're scared of getting pregnant? Lol

micromary said:

Think they're scared of getting pregnant? Lol

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bahahahahahahahahaha

Probably more worried of going blind...

Lol its prolly cuz he knows if he was gay he would a bottom. No jk lol that's mean to say

micromary said:

Lol its prolly cuz he knows if he was gay he would a bottom. No jk lol that's mean to say

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Only if you JUDGE him for it....

Yessica... said:

Only if you JUDGE him for it....

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Lmao! I hope he knows I'm OK with it.

Who u screw is ur biz buddy lol

micromary said:

Lmao! I hope he knows I'm OK with it.

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SAMESIES.

Sometimes young people are a little quick to judge. At least he's trying to change his perspective.

Or at least he started a thread about thinking that he may want to try to change his perspective...

Yessica... said:

SAMESIES.

Sometimes young people are a little quick to judge. At least he's trying to change his perspective.

Or at least he started a thread about thinking that he may want to try to change his perspective...

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Its a start. if he really wants to change, he'll change. Its totally in his hands.

Yessica... said:

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That is so pretty.

micromary said:

That is so pretty.

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Thought that was right up your alley.

Yessica... said:

Thought that was right up your alley.

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It totally is. I love it

This is a easy one, stop being a prick, humble yourself

19 seconds is all it takes me to figure out whether youre worth any more of my time:

Yessica... said:

I really don't get the whole strait guy fear of gay men thing.

If you get hit on by a gay guy #1 - that's a compliment.

#2 - a gay guy isn't going to all of a sudden "try harder" if you say you're strait in hopes to turn you. They have better fish to fry. Rainbow ones...

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micromary said:

Lol I know right.

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Have you girl ever been annoyed by a straight guy staring at you or coming on to you?

And they have tried harder..

And to be truthful you girls were unsuccessful in trying to open my heart and perspective, you actually caused me to tense up a bit. If you want to be a feminist, there are effective ways at doing it. But it looks like you are just judging me yourselves and enjoying attacking.

You girls must think that just because I'm a man I'm supposed to be tough and not have emotions but that's not the case. Men can be just as empathic and sensitive as women so be mindful of how you treat us.