You are going to constantly have to read. But you aren't giving us much here. Can you ask specific questions?
And Wayne, I don't think you get what I am saying.
I am not saying to keep the males in your space. Just don't kill them. if you know a nice spot in the wilderness that you aren't growing in just throw it out there. You don't even have to go water it. You never have to see the plant again, at least it has a chance to further the species.
**I just read through that and I am not saying you have to do this but it is the way I do it. and if you care at all, it is good for the environment.
Cheers Wayne30