I honestly don't believe I could be in a relationship with a person who doesn't agree with my smoking. If a person is that close-minded about things, then what could we really have in common? It's a harmless drug. I appreciate a guy that's willing to puff and curl up for a movie with me. That's how a good night at home should be. Agreed, children completely complicate the matter, and I can understand problems arising after that point. If you have kids, you should do your best not to expose them to drug use until they are adults. It makes sense to ban smoking to the garage, or the woods out back. By the time a kid hit teenage years, they'll be able to tell that you smoke pot. And then you should have a serious conversation with them. "Yes, I smoke. But it's not an important thing about me. It doesn't make me different from other people, it's just something I do because I enjoy it." Kids will understand that smoking or not, it's okay, and they can make a decision for themselves without being pressured one way or another by their parents.
And happy 4th of July, USA.