Awww...I told ya I was just playing!Man,don't be so sensitive or I'll give ya a noogie.Anyway, Yeah, I put it on the table in the beginning, like everyone should.Everyone should make it clear what they expect from the relationship, that way there are no illusions.
I'm a little sensitive... but noogies are a solid threat. Consider me in check... like I said, I appreciate your no-nonsense style.
many want to want something, but don't really understand what that thing really looks like in ownership... for example, I want to own a home ( i mean, I already do...just an example) but I don't understand that owning a home is not an automatic 'good thing'. there's a loooot of responsibility that comes with...
another example: having kids 'because i want someone to love and love me'...and don't realize that having kids means that i have to reorganize my priorities so that my selfish ass is no longer #1...and that's not easy in reality. simple, not easy.
that you've said, 'this is not only what I want, this is what I expect' means exactly what you said, no illusions. no disappointments.
you're a g to me, stoney...