how should i propose 2 my grl?

1twstdFCK said:

haha,

we have fun doin nething 2gether really..

what do yall think i cud do just bein @ home? ne thing good?

mayb make a romatic nite out of it..

or wikid!

if u was bein proposed 2.. wud u rther it b out in puplic? ..

or mayb home just the 2 of u?

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I think that if you're SURE she will say yes, then in public is a great way to go. I mean, figure if you did a whole scavenger hunt thing and the dinner, after you proposed she could put her ring ON, and people can start seeing it. Because trust me, every girl who gets engaged wants to show off that ring.

I mean, at home is kinda boring...you're there all the time. The only way I would say doing it at home was a good idea was if you did something crazy to like completely transform your house for a night, you know? It would have to be EXTRA special, you know what I mean? So that she can remember that it was special, and not just "oh, he proposed to me at home..."

But if you went out and bought bunch of stuff to transform at least part of your home into a little love nest, and you cooked for her, you could pull it off.

hmm, u make sence my friend. thanx!

n yes im posative she will say yes. im very lucky.

does she like to read? if so, you could write a like 10 page little booklet and start with how you met, end with you proposing to her and "lived happily ever after"

hm, pretty kewl idea matt!..

n yea she likes 2 read.. but she has this thing where she doesnt like readin cards or shit like that in font of ppl, cuz she said ppl r lookin 4 a certin reaction.. idk how much shed looove that.. shed prolly feel kinda akword readin it n front of me ya kno?

i want sumthinn.. that can beat how i asked her out..

we where in hi skewl, n i told her i was getin xspeled 4 sum bs, (i stayed n shit n hi skewl)
so i txted her told her i was in dep shit,...
she met me @ lunch,... i acted super pissed n it said
"lets make us officle" in the slip
she was stocked.

sumthin like that is wut im lookin 4..
but idk if i can beat it lol
i set the bar 2 damn hi!

Dude, why don't you have her friends get in on it or family and have them take her to a magic show. Have the magician pick her to do some crazy magic trick that will end in resulting with the ring wither it be her pulling it out of a hate or something just crazy that i can't think and you quietly sneak up behind her and be on one knee. She'd be surprised as hell to see you their and her family is already their. And she'd be in the spot light and all that stuff.

shit. i kno wut im doin..

i just need it 2 b sick.. sumthin shell think back 2 n b like..

awww baby! or sum shit.

so fuck u "old fart"...
i got this.

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Have a nice wedding and fuck you very much too young punk! Good luck when she's trying to run your life and makes you quit token and everything else you enjoyed when you were free.

Dude your girl isn't going to be saying awww baby when she finds out that you couldn't think of anything special for her so you decided to ask others for opinions. If you have to ask strangers what would be a good way to propose to your girl than maybe you should reconsider your statement of knowing she is the one. If she is so special than how could strangers think of something before you could? I sure hope she sees this thread before you jack someone elses idea and pass it off to her as your own. I'm sorry but if you can't think of a special way to propose to the one you love than maybe you don't love her after all

when i proposed to my wife, i secretly got her a nice ass ring. then i said we should go on a spotaneous picnic at beautiful park nearby. then we got wine, some fancy cheese and little toasted baguettes that were like crackers. after eating some cheese and crackers on a blanket and a few sips of wine(the wine was nasty haha). i asked her to get something out of the car, then i slipped the ring box into the bag of baguettes. when she got back, i asked her to reach in and get me a cracker. she pulled out the ring and i got on one knee and asked her to marry me. she was so damn surprised and happy. i know its kinda cheesey but i wanted to be romantic and it to be a surprise. we are not fancy rich people but i know she liked it cuz it made her feel like the soap opera women lmao. just put some thought and planning into it and make it special no matter what u do. also be prepared for the long haul mwuahahahahaha.

Yeah don't listen to all of these old angry divorced assholes. You know what's right for you. Keep it simple man, less to fuck up. Beach, one knee, bottle of wine and a good dinner where she can call everyone and tell them. The night will be special because you proposed. Maybe a park if no beach. Take it from a newly wed who freaked out about how to do it.

tom__420 said:

Dude your girl isn't going to be saying awww baby when she finds out that you couldn't think of anything special for her so you decided to ask others for opinions. If you have to ask strangers what would be a good way to propose to your girl than maybe you should reconsider your statement of knowing she is the one. If she is so special than how could strangers think of something before you could? I sure hope she sees this thread before you jack someone elses idea and pass it off to her as your own. I'm sorry but if you can't think of a special way to propose to the one you love than maybe you don't love her after all

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I don't think there's anything wrong with him asking for help with ideas. Not everyone is creative or imaginative on their own, and at least he loves her enough to want to make it special and memorable for her.

We all knew my best friend's husband was going to propose before she did. Because he talked about it with everyone close to her. Showed us the ring, told us his plan, asked us for input.

I don't see how not being able to come up with a special way to propose means he doesn't love her. I mean, I CAN come up with a special way to propose...does that mean *I* love her? Of course not.

I can see where you are coming from wikid, the only thing is that he really had no input whatsoever. He is just looking for ideas. He said he had a few ideas but then went on to ask again for an idea that he could do at home. In the example you gave you said that the guy proposing "Showed us the ring, told us his plan, asked us for input." I can see if the OP posted his idea and asked what people thought or where it could be better, but seriously nothing. Just that she makes him happy and that he knew she would say yes. All I'm saying is that if you can't come up with even the slightest bit of creativity to propose to the girl that you want to spend the rest of your life with than maybe you should hold off on the marriage

tom__420 said:

I can see where you are coming from wikid, the only thing is that he really had no input whatsoever. He is just looking for ideas. He said he had a few ideas but then went on to ask again for an idea that he could do at home. In the example you gave you said that the guy proposing "Showed us the ring, told us his plan, asked us for input." I can see if the OP posted his idea and asked what people thought or where it could be better, but seriously nothing. Just that she makes him happy and that he knew she would say yes. All I'm saying is that if you can't come up with even the slightest bit of creativity to propose to the girl that you want to spend the rest of your life with than maybe you should hold off on the marriage

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And all I'm saying is that how creative you are (or AREN'T) has nothing to do with whether or not (or how MUCH) you love someone.

Some people just aren't creative at ALL. I mean, what about all the guys proposed in the cliche manner, with no creativity at all? Or guys who totally blew the proposal, but the girl said yes anyways? What does their lack of creativity have to do with how much they love the other person?

Wikidbchofthewst said:

And all I'm saying is that how creative you are (or AREN'T) has nothing to do with whether or not (or how MUCH) you love someone.

Some people just aren't creative at ALL. I mean, what about all the guys proposed in the cliche manner, with no creativity at all? Or guys who totally blew the proposal, but the girl said yes anyways? What does their lack of creativity have to do with how much they love the other person?

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I'm sorry but everyone has there own creativity no matter how minimal it is. How can you say you love someone but you can't come up with an idea that would show her that and make her feel special. I think that taking someone else's idea because you couldn't think of your own is just a glimpse at what the marriage will be like. Boring and I bet the girl will have doubts. It isn't fair to the girl to be proposed to and think that her husband came up with it just because of how special she is. At least tell her that you love her but aren't creative enough to show her so you went to a stoner forum and asked strangers for help. Marriage is about honesty

tom__420 said:

I'm sorry but everyone has there own creativity no matter how minimal it is. How can you say you love someone but you can't come up with an idea that would show her that and make her feel special. I think that taking someone else's idea because you couldn't think of your own is just a glimpse at what the marriage will be like. Boring and I bet the girl will have doubts. It isn't fair to the girl to be proposed to and think that her husband came up with it just because of how special she is. At least tell her that you love her but aren't creative enough to show her so you went to a stoner forum and asked strangers for help. Marriage is about honesty

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That's just not true. You probably think it is, because you are probably creative. It's hard for people who ARE to imagine how someone can NOT be. But there are people who just aren't creative at all, they don't think outside the box.

Of course they can come up with ideas, but they're always the cliches, the stuff we've all seen in the movies hundreds of times. One of the biggest complaints from women is that the proposal wasn't original enough. So what's wrong with a guy admitting that he can't come up with a more original idea on his own, and making an effort to go FIND one? Like I said, at least he cares enough to want to try and make it special for her. EDIT: And by original, I don't mean that he came up with it on his own, obviously. I mean something outside of the norm.

And I don't think that comment about the marriage being boring is fair. I have never been married, but from what I hear, it's not easy, and it takes work to keep the marriage interesting and alive. I think it's more important that you be willing to put in the effort, than to be naturally creative.

I'm gonna set up a bunch of flowers in a field... that say WILL YOU MARRY ME? And take her flying, then tell her to look out of the window

Had the plan for years, just lousy candidates for wives so far, haha!