He Has A Daughter.

racerboy71

racerboy71

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once you do that, your computer window will open up, and just pix pictures if that is where your pix are at, select the files you want to upload, you can do a shit ton at one time i think.. i don't want to show you that one on my computer for obvious reasons...
and once you do that, hit the upload pix button, then insert online and you're all done..
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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Do you guys have any idea how long it took me to find the upload button?! It's so dark on my screen (and I have VPD) so I couldn't see it 0_o

I'm sure we're not the only ones struggling X3
 
racerboy71

racerboy71

bud bootlegger
xKuroiTaimax said:
Do you guys have any idea how long it took me to find the upload button?! It's so dark on my screen (and I have VPD) so I couldn't see it 0_o

I'm sure we're not the only ones struggling X3
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well than i hope that helped out more than urca then kuroi.. i think she should be able to figure the rest of it out for herself..
 
ganjames

ganjames

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actually tinypic will have the code with the things already there that you can just copy and paste that instead.

it will be under "IMG Code for Forums & Message Boards"
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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On the photobucket iphone app ypu just tap it and it'll copy the whole URL plus tags for you too ^^ Resizing is awkward though.

And yeah, the pictures help because when I first read the FAQ I was like 'there is a link in this dark-colored taskbar thing? LIES!!!!!!' *hiss*
 
brandon.

brandon.

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Who cares if he didn't tell you he had a kid until now. It's not you like you guys were in a relationship, or anything super serious. He probably didn't bring it up because he thought you were going to freak, as if it really matters that much. If you like the guy, a child shouldn't be a deal breaker.

I have a son, and if I were single I would wait to tell a potential girlfriend about it. On top of that, even after telling the girl about my son, she wouldn't meet him for a really long time.
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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I suppose it IS unfair to uniformly rule out all those singletons with kids, but Urca is young and it begs the question 'what went wrong?'

It depends on individual circumstances really and evidence of character. We don't know this guy at all so however presumptuous it is, it's better to err on the side of caution.
 
brandon.

brandon.

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xKuroiTaimax said:
I suppose it IS unfair to uniformly rule out all those singletons with kids, but Urca is young and it begs the question 'what went wrong?'

It depends on individual circumstances really and evidence of character. We don't know this guy at all so however presumptuous it is, it's better to err on the side of caution.
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It's definitely unfair. She may be young, but she's the one that willingly talking to someone that is his age. If she was talking to a 19 year old with a kid that's a bit different, but he's not. I don't think it matters what went wrong unless it was something like he beat the shit out of baby mama or something like that. Maybe the baby was an accident, maybe he was talking to a few chicks (like Urca is talking to a few dudes) and he didn't want to marry the girl. Maybe she didn't want to marry him, or decided to leave him.

Things happen and people's feelings change all the time. We're all human, I don't think fair to make any assumptions without honestly talking to him about it first.
 
olylifter420

olylifter420

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being dishonest will get you nowhere. I think she is really doing a bad thing in talking to multiple people at the same time... It is not nice to the other party involved and most likely she will get the same treatment in return... Playing with fire will only get you burned



brandon. said:
It's definitely unfair. She may be young, but she's the one that willingly talking to someone that is his age. If she was talking to a 19 year old with a kid that's a bit different, but he's not. I don't think it matters what went wrong unless it was something like he beat the shit out of baby mama or something like that. Maybe the baby was an accident, maybe he was talking to a few chicks (like Urca is talking to a few dudes) and he didn't want to marry the girl. Maybe she didn't want to marry him, or decided to leave him.

Things happen and people's feelings change all the time. We're all human, I don't think fair to make any assumptions without honestly talking to him about it first.
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corvetteguy

corvetteguy

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I have a daughter who dosen't live with me. And being single and dating myself "maybe" I can shed a little light on the subject. Personally I do not bother bringing up the fact that I have a child until I feel that the relationship warrants doing so. After all it is a difficult subject to talk about to say the least, especially with someone that you don't know very well. And I myself would rather not open that "can of worms" until I know that the relationship is going somewhere,and is not going to be just another fling. So maybe he has discovered that he has REAL feelings for you and he would like to take the relationship to the next level. I Know that your situation may differ from my own, but all I'm saying is don't judge him too harshly based on this alone. And try to look at it from his point of view, you may be suprised at what you discover. Also I have to wonder if you are being honest with him aswell. Have you told him that you are talking to other men, or are you "withholding" things from him too. Most of the time people (myself included) are guilty of judging others when we should really be taking a good look in the mirror at ourselves. I hope this maybe helped you in some way, or if nothing else it gave you another view of your situation. Good luck and God speed.
 
tip top toker

tip top toker

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Urca said:
Im pretty sure he doesnt have a wife. idk how weird it is, I try not to judge though cause my stepdad was 21 when he hooked up with my 30 year old mom who had a 4 year old and two three year olds...

Or any of my friends i went to school with who had children.. its a mistake, doesnt mean they cant have relationships
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You're pretty sure? Yet you'd been talking a while and only just found out he had a 4 year old daughter and it blew your mind....

Maybe you should take a step back and focus on boys your age until you're ready for the world.
 
Urca

Urca

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corvetteguy said:
I have a daughter who dosen't live with me. And being single and dating myself "maybe" I can shed a little light on the subject. Personally I do not bother bringing up the fact that I have a child until I feel that the relationship warrants doing so. After all it is a difficult subject to talk about to say the least, especially with someone that you don't know very well. And I myself would rather not open that "can of worms" until I know that the relationship is going somewhere,and is not going to be just another fling. So maybe he has discovered that he has REAL feelings for you and he would like to take the relationship to the next level. I Know that your situation may differ from my own, but all I'm saying is don't judge him too harshly based on this alone. And try to look at it from his point of view, you may be suprised at what you discover. Also I have to wonder if you are being honest with him aswell. Have you told him that you are talking to other men, or are you "withholding" things from him too. Most of the time people (myself included) are guilty of judging others when we should really be taking a good look in the mirror at ourselves. I hope this maybe helped you in some way, or if nothing else it gave you another view of your situation. Good luck and God speed.
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yeah he knows... I told him straight up, who it was and what I was doing... that was before he decided he wanted to leave and then come back, he knows I still talk to the guys.
 
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NoDrama

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Kodank Moment said:
I recommend staying away from relationships until you grow up a lot. No offense. Really.
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I would actually have given the opposite advice. Have as many flings as you can, screw like there is no tomorrow, you'll mature eventually, may as well have a good time while your at it.
 
medicalmaryjane

medicalmaryjane

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did you ever end up meeting this guy?

i dont think you should bbotoher with a guy with a kid, he's not 4 u, sorry. you would do better with a guy closerto your age.
 
Urca

Urca

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he is a liar, a dirty fucking liar, a horrible horrible man, who thought it was so funny to hurt me.
 
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