There are so many females to choose from out there, I've never understood why people bother sleeping with friends of friends, their friends boyfriends/girlfriends, etc. In my opinion that shit is nasty, why would i want your sloppy seconds, or tired thirds, or fuckedover fourths? Girls are enough drama in and of themselves, no need to complicate the situation with an emotionally challenged male (ugh, get it together OP's room mate). Ive been in a relationshit for 3 years with the same girl, we've brought in other couples a few times, but in all honesty, vagina is vagina. Ive had fat girls, skinny girls, black girls, asain girls, you name it, i hit it. And at the end of the day, a nut is a nut; so the less money, drama, and attention i have to spend to get mines, the better.