could you marry a girl thats been with 25 or more dudes?

of course you do your female and on one level (brain) i agree with you but on another level (primal instinct or sumthin) i dont, i guess its just the way we're built to keep the species going no matter what.

Gryphonn said:

Me too, and I'm a bloke.

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Cuz you got class Gryphonn

Gryphonn said:

Me too, and I'm a bloke.

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religious upbringing by any chance?

ripz said:

of course you do your female and on one level (brain) i agree with you but on another level (primal instinct or sumthin) i dont, i guess its just the way we're built to keep the species going no matter what.

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Um, Gryphonn's a guy, so that blows that theory out of the water, doesn't it?

If you like/love her, then it should be all good. To be honest I'm not interested in the past sexual encounters my lover had. I mean if she was a crack whore or running track or something, thats when it gets complicated.

Wrap it up fellas!

not neccesarily i think if we did a poll you would find he's in the minority of men and majority of women, some men have a more feminine side to em wat can i say lol

ripz said:

not neccesarily i think if we did a poll you would find he's in the minority of men and majority of women, some men have a more feminine side to em wat can i say lol

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I think it's that some are just more mature than others

bootie said:

If you like/love her, then it should be all good. To be honest I'm not interested in the past sexual encounters my lover had. I mean if she was a crack whore or running track or something, thats when it gets complicated.

Wrap it up fellas!

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then you have no interest in your health, self esteem,public image etc?
you can pretend your not bothered but unless you got a low iq this shit will eat at you.

I'd marry someone at 25. But it all depends on the person and how old they are... how they act. I've been with 24 and I'm not a "slut"... thats way less than one person a year.


Would i marry a 18 - 20yr old who has slept with 25 guys? ----NO!
Would i marry a 40+ yr old who has slept with 25 guys? ------HELL YEAH!

Hillbilly420 said:

I'd marry someone at 25. But it all depends on the person and how old they are... how they act. I've been with 24 and I'm not a "slut"... thats way less than one person a year.


Would i marry a 18 - 20yr old who has slept with 25 guys? ----NO!
Would i marry a 40+ yr old who has slept with 25 guys? ------HELL YEAH!

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Hmm, that raises an interesting twist, because yes, I think age definitely makes a difference, your little example illustrated that well

Wikidbchofthewst said:

I think it's that some are just more mature than others

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i'm just being honest i'm not saying it's right just that it is what it is and right or wrong its always been that way and probably always will be. i personally would not entertain the idea of marrying someone with that much history but then that makes me a hypocrite. i accept that but does it mean that i'm going to change? no chance! the way we are programmed (norms) makes us act and think in a certain way thats how it is.

Wikidbchofthewst said:

Hmm, that raises an interesting twist, because yes, I think age definitely makes a difference, your little example illustrated that well

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yeah that is another good point as well the age thing a girl of 20 with 25 sexual partners would be a no go zone but an older woman you would have to expect her to have had more partners

Just though i'd through that in there...

I'd also, need a "test" done... Cant be too careful these days.
Something like 1-3 people have a venereal disease now...
Makes you think, huh?

i'm glad i've found my true love guys cos with a ratio like 1 in 3 people having bugs i wouldnt like to be out chasing women these days fuck that i'd be running away from them.
i would never cheat on my mrs and i know she would never cheat on me so i can happily never have to get myself tested again
life is much nicer when you meet the right one even though it gets rough sometimes its good to have the back up and support.

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religious upbringing by any chance?

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BZZT! Wrong assumption by a loong shot.

not neccesarily i think if we did a poll you would find he's in the minority of men and majority of women, some men have a more feminine side to em wat can i say lol

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Interesting. I always thought that I was in touch with my feminine side...
I guess I'm just feminine...

I personally wouldn't tag anyone, male or female with the 'slut' term. It just shits me when I see these threads that insinuate that guys who fuck like rabbits are OK, but women who do are dirty sluts! I mean really, what is the difference between the two?

If a woman has had 25 different sexual partners, then I reckon she would probably have a good idea of how to turn a guy on. If not, then she has had a lot of fun for herself. If a guy has done the same, I'd hope he had some idea of how to turn a woman on, otherwise all that sex would have been a waste of time.

ripz said:

then you have no interest in your health, self esteem,public image etc?
you can pretend your not bothered but unless you got a low iq this shit will eat at you.

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If you have love, trust and friendship in your relationship, past experiences shouldn't even enter into the equation.
Public image? Is that like when all your mates take you aside and say, "Gee mate, we've all been there, don't marry her!" I'd call that double standards.
Low IQ does not dictate your sexual promiscuity or ignorance ripz.
Some of the most gifted people on the planet fucked like mad rabbits.

My last partner (of 16 years) couldn't remember the number of sexual partners she had. I met her when she was 20 something. Ironically, I trusted her, but she was the most jealous monster you have met. Lovely person, but insanely jealous to the point of secretly following me to work and threatening female store workers that I delivered freight to.

In my experience, single people who have a lot of sexual partners, and please, this is my opinion, I don't state it as a fact; people who have a lot of sexual partners either enjoy sex for the sake of sex, or they are looking for love.
I also believe that a lot of young girls get seduced by romantic advances of some guy who just wants 'some nice tight pussy' to quote someone from another thread (is this wrong). At a tender emotional age, it can sometimes end up that they start to believe sex = love. Then the same dirty pigs that prey on these young girls then call them sluts when they're older because they're fucking guys all over the place, trying to find real love.
The same thing can happen to blokes too. Problem is, most of us grow up with this peer pressure that says if you're a boy, it is 'required' that you have sex and have it with many partners. If you get dumped by a girl, you can't let that worry you. Just find another one. Which leads me to this statement ripz:

ripz said:

i'm just being honest i'm not saying it's right just that it is what it is and right or wrong its always been that way and probably always will be. i personally would not entertain the idea of marrying someone with that much history but then that makes me a hypocrite. i accept that but does it mean that i'm going to change? no chance! the way we are programmed (norms) makes us act and think in a certain way thats how it is.

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I had long arguments with my ex about pot and the kids. Her take was that I was not supposed to even mention that I had ever smoked. Her opinion was also that it was OK for her kids at 17 to drink at home, but not smoke.
I was of the view that I couldn't do that because it was hypocritical of me to denounce pot because I have always been a smoker.

Hypocrisy is an unfortunate trait to carry through life. Defending something you believe is not exactly feminine either ripz.

Gryphonn said:

BZZT! Wrong assumption by a loong shot.

...what is the difference between the two?

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men usually have to approach women.
so when a man "captures" a chick its a accomplishment
women like to be approached and captured so theyre not going to be like " ha, i lured 30 dudes over with my titties"

but the dude is gonna be like "ha, i got game, i just sweet talked her in to heading back to my place"

so theyre is a diffrence,but i'm really high and em not sure if i'm making any sense here, so i'll jut ramble on...

oh and i agree with you...

Heh... I'm not in that situation, but if she has stopped sleeping around, and plans on being loyal I don't see why not.

I mean... I've slept with a lot of women, and my lady still wants to marry me, regardless of my sexual history, or the work I've put in for the adult industry.

Life isn't about the person you were, it's about the person you ARE.

If she is a lady in the street and a freak in the bed hell why not, just watch who she invites to the wedding could get a little embarrassing.

If I didn;t know.. it wouldnt matter.. but if I knew.. no.. fuck that.. and no, if a dude's been with 25 chicks he's the same nasty undesirable person she is... if not worse cause dude's don;t care who they fuck...

I never asked my husband how many girls he was with....
It didn't matter to me, that was the past, I was his future.....
He also didn't ask me. I guess it didn't matter to him either.