could you marry a girl thats been with 25 or more dudes?

Stoney McFried

Stoney McFried

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So, your sig says you love porn.Obviously, you like watching those"sluts".I think someone can be promiscuous and still be "moral".Just because they had an active sex life doesn't mean they don't take a relationship seriously.And not all men with small penises are insecure...because they know how to use what they've been given.SO basically..."sluts" are ok for YOUR amusement, for example, porn, but they aren't good enough to be friends with, or have a relatioship with,because you're AFRAID of what other people think.So you're more concerned with IMAGE than REALITY>..does that about cover it?
puffpuffPASSEDOUT said:
Sure if a guy has a tiny wang then he is going to be insecure, But if he has a tiny peter than he knows he's gonna keep his mouth shut unless he wants the relationship to commit suicide.

Sure there are some huge dicks out there and some women like them. Typically its the girls/woman who have been with alot of partners. When i talk to girls about what size they like they always say how the huge dicks are painful. Im not slouch over here but im big enough to not be insecure about my body. Small penis men are the ones who fuck relationships up, they fuck it up with all their insecurities and jealousy. In my opinion the are worse than women because they are men that act like women.

What was i talking about? oh you said how if a guy is concern'd about how many partners a girl was with than he is insecure. Pssssh wrong.... Its a moral thing. Sluts hang out with other sluts plain and simple. If you find a girl whos been with many dudes chances are her friends have too....Sluts arent bad but to an honest man they could spell trouble :roll:
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BobMarleySpliffs

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Any man who is concerned by the number of partners his girlfriend had in the past, has an issue with confidence.Because, what it's really about, is..."Did she have a bigger dick in her than mine?Was one of those guys better?"
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What the hell are you talking about, I'm talking about trust here, you can't trust a whore, that's what I've been saying and you guys keep flipping and twisting my words around. Trust is the single most important thing to a man, and I'm sorry but girls with over 25 partners are bound to cheat eventually regardless of how big your dick is.

I dated a girl for 4 years that I knew going into it she'd been with all my friends and over 60-100 guys at least. This was 5 years ago and the girl still wants to be back with me, so the size of my unit is not a problem since your so interested.

Was it fun ? yes of course, she was a nymph.
Did I trust her ? hell no.
Did she end up cheating multiple times ? of course.
Did I give a shit ? a little, but I knew she was a dirty going in.
Was it because my sausage size was insufficient ? Don't think so.

YOU CAN'T TURN A HO INTO A HOUSEWIFE, end of story.
 
Stoney McFried

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I say bullshit.I know women who had their fun and then became nice little wifey's.Multiple partners when you are single doesn't make you a cheater.Being a cheater makes you a cheater.Just sounds to me like you picked bad partners in the past.But like I said before.We are who we are, not who we fuck.
BobMarleySpliffs said:
What the hell are you talking about, I'm talking about trust here, you can't trust a whore, that's what I've been saying and you guys keep flipping and twisting my words around. Trust is the single most important thing to a man, and I'm sorry but girls with over 25 partners are bound to cheat eventually regardless of how big your dick is.

I dated a girl for 4 years that I knew going into it she'd been with all my friends and over 60-100 guys at least. This was 5 years ago and the girl still wants to be back with me, so the size of my unit is not a problem since your so interested.

Was it fun ? yes of course, she was a nymph.
Did I trust her ? hell no.
Did she end up cheating multiple times ? of course.
Did I give a shit ? a little, but I knew she was a dirty going in.
Was it because my sausage size was insufficient ? Don't think so.

YOU CAN'T TURN A HO INTO A HOUSEWIFE, end of story.
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puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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Stoney McFried said:
Yeah.It's stupid to make generalizations about people based on their sex.Have you ever questioned WHY you feel this way? Is it because you truly believe it deep down?Or are you just mimicking what you've been told?:peace:
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sex really has to do with age... I mean I was with a girl who was a virgin til she was 20. She had already had a bf for a year or so and was raise catholic with all the principles etc... After her first love treated her like shit and dumped her she became depressed etc... She would spend the next 3 years of her life single, ended up having a fuck buddy etc... Once she told me about her past things really started to open up for me. I started to see why she was the way she was. ...... Your past defines who you are bottomline. It goes beyond the physical when it comes to relationships with me.

Sex is just that little something extra that we relate to with each other. If your going around and being a whore then your not going to give off a homely vibe. People are going to know your a whore. This can benefit you if your sexy but in the end its gonna hurt you.

Woman whos been with many partners = headcase/slut/doesnt know what she wants

Man who have been with many partners = Someone who knows what he wants. Sex! Sure he could settle for one girl but if he has girls all over him then he's gonna keep doing what hes doing. Also men are naturally more independant than women, so that feeds into the mix.



.....Im sorry im beating this to death, im just enjoy sharing my point of view and talking about it! this is so much fun ;-)
 
Sunnysideup

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puffpuffPASSEDOUT said:
sex really has to do with age... I mean I was with a girl who was a virgin til she was 20. She had already had a bf for a year or so and was raise catholic with all the principles etc... After her first love treated her like shit and dumped her she became depressed etc... She would spend the next 3 years of her life single, ended up having a fuck buddy etc... Once she told me about her past things really started to open up for me. I started to see why she was the way she was. ...... Your past defines who you are bottomline. It goes beyond the physical when it comes to relationships with me.

Sex is just that little something extra that we relate to with each other. If your going around and being a whore then your not going to give off a homely vibe. People are going to know your a whore. This can benefit you if your sexy but in the end its gonna hurt you.

Woman whos been with many partners = headcase/slut/doesnt know what she wants

Man who have been with many partners = Someone who knows what he wants. Sex! Sure he could settle for one girl but if he has girls all over him then he's gonna keep doing what hes doing. Also men are naturally more independant than women, so that feeds into the mix.



.....Im sorry im beating this to death, im just enjoy sharing my point of view and talking about it! this is so much fun ;-)
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Good luck Puff, I think you will need it......I feel something is coming your way in about 3...2....1.....
 
strangerdude562

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no, i don't even think i would allow myself to even care for such a woman. Also, it is definite that this lady has a sexually transmitted disease, no doubt about that.
 
C

cxt

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Seems to be an age difference here...seems like it's older people vs younger people in this argument. In the end it's not about generalizations it comes down to the individual. A girl that's been with 2 men can be untrustworthy, a girl that's been with 50 can be the one, and vise versa. Sure there's trends and tells, but you don't know till you know, know what im sayin?
 
Stoney McFried

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No.Your past doesn't have to control you.You learn from it and move on.As an adult, you have to take ownership of your actions.You can no longer blame things on how you were raised, or what happened in your past.I myself was a virgin until I was 18.I allowed my upbringing to be a severe roadblock to my sexuality for many years.I still work on it.But don't you see how this double standard can fuck up heads?WHY is it ok for a man and not a woman?Plain and simple, sexism.That's the bottom line.Because a woman is, in the minds of people who believe this way,a potential candidate for "mommy".News flash....not all women wanna be mommies.
To go back to the "past is who you are" are you then saying that if she had been raped, sexually molested, etc,that was who she was? We are different sides of THE SAME coin.Why can't women enjoy sex as much as you, and different, new partners and experiences?Wanna know where you get that from?Way back when, women were expected to "submit" to their husbands sexual demands.It was not supposed to be enjoyable for women...if they liked it too much, they were a bad woman.The man was afraid she'd make him a cuckold.The most sex education a woman got on her wedding night was usually when their mom told them something like,"he's gonna do awful things to you, it hurts, but you must do it any time he likes.Because he needs it."Vibrators were invented because women, being sexually frustrated and not knowing what was wrong, came down with feminine "hysteria"...basically a nervous breakdown because of unreleased sexual tension.At first, doctors manually stimulated these women to orgasm, but as the demand became so great, vibrators hit the scene and were sold in sears and roebuck catalogues. So you see, you are just perpetuating a hurtful, oppressive stereotype here.
puffpuffPASSEDOUT said:
sex really has to do with age... I mean I was with a girl who was a virgin til she was 20. She had already had a bf for a year or so and was raise catholic with all the principles etc... After her first love treated her like shit and dumped her she became depressed etc... She would spend the next 3 years of her life single, ended up having a fuck buddy etc... Once she told me about her past things really started to open up for me. I started to see why she was the way she was. ...... Your past defines who you are bottomline. It goes beyond the physical when it comes to relationships with me.

Sex is just that little something extra that we relate to with each other. If your going around and being a whore then your not going to give off a homely vibe. People are going to know your a whore. This can benefit you if your sexy but in the end its gonna hurt you.

Woman whos been with many partners = headcase/slut/doesnt know what she wants

Man who have been with many partners = Someone who knows what he wants. Sex! Sure he could settle for one girl but if he has girls all over him then he's gonna keep doing what hes doing. Also men are naturally more independant than women, so that feeds into the mix.



.....Im sorry im beating this to death, im just enjoy sharing my point of view and talking about it! this is so much fun ;-)
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Stoney McFried

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You know what?My first sexual partner, a lifelong misogynist, gave me a sexually transmitted infection.Knew he had it.Gave it to me on purpose.After I broke up with him, I didn't have sex for two years. On the other hand, my mother had sex with well over 200 men in her lifetime, and hasn't had one infection.My brother has also had over 100 women, same thing, so that bl;ows you outta the water.
strangerdude562 said:
no, i don't even think i would allow myself to even care for such a woman. Also, it is definite that this lady has a sexually transmitted disease, no doubt about that.
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BobMarleySpliffs

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I say bullshit.I know women who had their fun and then became nice little wifey's.Multiple partners when you are single doesn't make you a cheater.Being a cheater makes you a cheater.Just sounds to me like you picked bad partners in the past.But like I said before.We are who we are, not who we fuck.
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I don't hate woman either, I love and respect them more than most guys. I've had my share of really nice girls as well and still have hope, lol. Multiple partners while single doesn't make a girl a cheater but the odds go through the roof, I'm just being honest if a guy hears his girls been with over 25 dudes the trust goes out the window regardless of how confidence we are and ends up in the long run not working out.

If I was a girl I'd be furious at the porno industry though because it's really making Young guys show no respect because they think all girls are sluts and some girls think they have to be whores to get a guy when in reality guys want the virgins and innocent girls with less experience to make a wife and family.
 
puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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Stoney McFried said:
So, your sig says you love porn.Obviously, you like watching those"sluts".I think someone can be promiscuous and still be "moral".Just because they had an active sex life doesn't mean they don't take a relationship seriously.And not all men with small penises are insecure...because they know how to use what they've been given.SO basically..."sluts" are ok for YOUR amusement, for example, porn, but they aren't good enough to be friends with, or have a relatioship with,because you're AFRAID of what other people think.So you're more concerned with IMAGE than REALITY>..does that about cover it?
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Why do i like porn? I enjoy watching porn sometimes for its comedic experience, but most of the time its because (good) porn lets you experience sex on a different level. I mean the things that those people do just excites the mind. Im able to experience a moment of intimacy without strings attached. When im finished i light a bowl and go about my day/night. Hell if it wasnt for porn who knows how i'd be in bed. Ive been watching porn b4 i even had sex! It has taught me so much..It gave me a running start


Now to sluts... I have many many mannnnnnny friends who are sluts. Some men, most women. Hell ive been a slut b4. If a woman is a slut, she knows it, And so does the 100 other guys waiting to bang her. Sluts just equal drama. If your with a girl whos a slut do you think your going to run into a past fuck? LOL probably ...And what does that promote? jealousy and sometimes violence between men. Why? becuase on one hand the guy who is currently having sex with her has intimate feelings for her. The other guy now is thinking "damn i sure wouldnt mind hitting that again". Sure He might be patient and waits for that opportunity to get with her again... In the end she will stray. All it takes is a few things to happen to make her want something else. ......... I can go on and on why sluts are bad but I would probably be beating a dead horse talking to you :roll:
 
Stoney McFried

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I never said you did.But how many women have you had?Why isn't it a two way street?And porn...teaches nothing of use.In case you didn't know....most of those women are faking it.Bottom line.Look at how they spend a few moments on uninspired"foreplay", then go into penetration.No wonder women are seeking more.Most young guys are learning off of porn videos,no wonder their skills, and respect level for women, are subpar.And not all men want virgins.Trust me.They have their share of problems too.The only thing most virgin fetishists are into is the supposed tightness, and the thought of "teaching" someone...thing is...they've never had any comparison, so they'll never know if you suck or not unless they figure it out on their own.Many of these men who MUST have a virgin have a daddy complex.They want control.
BobMarleySpliffs said:
I don't hate woman either, I love and respect them more than most guys. I've had my share of really nice girls as well and still have hope, lol. Multiple partners while single doesn't make a girl a cheater but the odds go through the roof, I'm just being honest if a guy hears his girls been with over 25 dudes the trust goes out the window regardless of how confidence we are and ends up in the long run not working out.

If I was a girl I'd be furious at the porno industry though because it's really making Young guys show no respect because they think all girls are sluts and some girls think they have to be whores to get a guy when in reality guys want the virgins and innocent girls with less experience to make a wife and family.
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See.You're learning from porn.Guarantee you, my friend, and this is not a cheap shot at you...if you and I screwed, I'd probably be correcting you.If you look at porn and think any of that spitting goobers on crotches, nipple twisting, cum shot bullshit is skill...you're absolutely wrong.
puffpuffPASSEDOUT said:
Why do i like porn? I enjoy watching porn sometimes for its comedic experience, but most of the time its because (good) porn lets you experience sex on a different level. I mean the things that those people do just excites the mind. Im able to experience a moment of intimacy without strings attached. When im finished i light a bowl and go about my day/night. Hell if it wasnt for porn who knows how i'd be in bed. Ive been watching porn b4 i even had sex! It has taught me so much..It gave me a running start
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This entire argument shows me, that you don't think women are on the same level emotionally as you.Guy sluts cause drama.Women get jealous.You can run into your boyfriends ex pretty easily,too.You're talking in absolutes.Which shows me, you're not THINKING about this, you're feeling about this.You're reciting from rote, what you have been taught.And what is generally accepted by our society.
puffpuffPASSEDOUT said:
Now to sluts... I have many many mannnnnnny friends who are sluts. Some men, most women. Hell ive been a slut b4. If a woman is a slut, she knows it, And so does the 100 other guys waiting to bang her. Sluts just equal drama. If your with a girl whos a slut do you think your going to run into a past fuck? LOL probably ...And what does that promote? jealousy and sometimes violence between men. Why? becuase on one hand the guy who is currently having sex with her has intimate feelings for her. The other guy now is thinking "damn i sure wouldnt mind hitting that again". Sure He might be patient and waits for that opportunity to get with her again... In the end she will stray. All it takes is a few things to happen to make her want something else. ......... I can go on and on why sluts are bad but I would probably be beating a dead horse talking to you :roll:
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puffpuffPASSEDOUT

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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Stoney McFried said:
No.Your past doesn't have to control you.You learn from it and move on.As an adult, you have to take ownership of your actions.You can no longer blame things on how you were raised, or what happened in your past.I myself was a virgin until I was 18.I allowed my upbringing to be a severe roadblock to my sexuality for many years.I still work on it.But don't you see how this double standard can fuck up heads?WHY is it ok for a man and not a woman?Plain and simple, sexism.That's the bottom line.Because a woman is, in the minds of people who believe this way,a potential candidate for "mommy".News flash....not all women wanna be mommies.
To go back to the "past is who you are" are you then saying that if she had been raped, sexually molested, etc,that was who she was? We are different sides of THE SAME coin.Why can't women enjoy sex as much as you, and different, new partners and experiences?Wanna know where you get that from?Way back when, women were expected to "submit" to their husbands sexual demands.It was not supposed to be enjoyable for women...if they liked it too much, they were a bad woman.The man was afraid she'd make him a cuckold.The most sex education a woman got on her wedding night was usually when their mom told them something like,"he's gonna do awful things to you, it hurts, but you must do it any time he likes.Because he needs it."Vibrators were invented because women, being sexually frustrated and not knowing what was wrong, came down with feminine "hysteria"...basically a nervous breakdown because of unreleased sexual tension.At first, doctors manually stimulated these women to orgasm, but as the demand became so great, vibrators hit the scene and were sold in sears and roebuck catalogues. So you see, you are just perpetuating a hurtful, oppressive stereotype here.
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Ill try to keep this as simple as possible. Women can get sex WHENEVER they want! Typically a man cant get the same response. It has to involve money or fame to get that type of attention. The only other way a man can get this attention is if he has a big dick. Its something that women want, and desire. Woman are naturally born with something men want. This is why if she "gives it up" to any willing individual than she is a slut/whore.

Maybe 15% of men have the ability to get the kind of attention that EVERY woman gets from birth. Women are supposed to cherish thier vagina's, Not pass it around like the mashed potatoes at thanksgiving.
 
Stoney McFried

Stoney McFried

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You didn't even read a damn word of what I typed!You're now putting all women into a category of shallow, money grubbing, missile hunting sluts, who can't look past the surface of the man and see him for what he really is.Either that, or they better damn well be virgins.Dude, you're not even making salient points.You're not rebutting anything, you're just spitting out the same response with different wording, over and over ad nauseum! Cherish your cock, then!Don't wash it in every available vagina and then call her a slut behind her back...this woman, this person, is allowing you access to a very intimate part of herself, and you call her a slut for wanting the exact SAME thing you think you have a right to...SEXUAL SATISFACTION! Without guilt, or pretense!Why should she be saddled with your issues?Why does she have to remake herself in the image of your ideal in order to be worthy of you?I tell you now something that you are gonna learn the hard way.Each human being should be judged individually on their character,and you, sir, are perpetuating a myth of what womanhood is that originated in the dark ages, and has stopped many, many women from being the ripe sexual beings they have a RIGHT to be, just like you!No shame.I tell you what, you cherish your vagina a hell of a lot more when you realize what pleasure it can give you, and that the person who gives it to you recognizes you as a WHOLE person, not just for your vagina.
puffpuffPASSEDOUT said:
Ill try to keep this as simple as possible. Women can get sex WHENEVER they want! Typically a man cant get the same response. It has to involve money or fame to get that type of attention. The only other way a man can get this attention is if he has a big dick. Its something that women want, and desire. Woman are naturally born with something men want. This is why if she "gives it up" to any willing individual than she is a slut/whore.

Maybe 15% of men have the ability to get the kind of attention that EVERY woman gets from birth. Women are supposed to cherish thier vagina's, Not pass it around like the mashed potatoes at thanksgiving.
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