here's how it works:
a mortage should NEVER be more than the market rent of the area where the property is located. a mortage should be amortized in such a way where you spend less than any renters around you. that way should you choose you can rent out the place and it yields enough to cover the mortage + a little profit. if you find yourself in a situation where your mortage is more than the market rent, you should look into refinancing, restructuring, whatever... you are being screwed if that's the case..... interest rates are LOW now...
there is NO way you should be forced to pay more as a mortage payment than what a market renter next door pays as rent.
you can be duped into this arrangement by unscrupulous lenders and ambitious salesmen, but HELL NO.
that's a bad deal. even if you have a house in an expensive neighborhood. for ex. a house in a nice neighborhood rents for 7,000 per month. the mortage should not be more than 5500 per month. if you have a mortage payment that's more than 80% of the potential rent income it's time to refinance, especially now with low interest rates.....
that's how it is. not how it should be....
Sorry rediver, but you're wrong. Property values and rental prices are influenced by different market forces. Not all markets are the same. I work with real estate investors, and we all know there are many places in this country where rent is far cheaper then a mortgage.
If you want to save and grow your money, the answer is very simple: live below your means and invest everything else.
If you're willing to rent a place far smaller (and significantly cheaper) then the house you feel you "deserve" you'll save a lot of money by renting.
The problem many home buyers have is they think their place of residence is an investment. It is not, it is a liability you'll be stuck with until you sell it. Investments make money, liabilities cost money.
If you want to be smart with your money rent cheap and invest your savings. Buying real estate can indeed be profitable, but NOT if you're living in the property. By living in the property you're consuming the profitability of your asset. The only exception would be to make improvements on the property yourself.
If you can live below your means, save money and invest, come retirement, you can buy the house of your dreams. If you buy your house now and keep the first house you buy, you'll retire and spend the rest of your life in a house of far less value then if you'd made some true investments to pay for your dream house.