awful character flaw i've developed in recent months

I've spent the past 7-8 months of my life in a VERY desolate oil boom town. Men out-number women 30/1 in these parts...tiny population to begin with, and then men come from all over to work in the oil field.



I'm overwhelmed by beauty...to the point where I avoid beautiful women...EVEN when there are signs of mutual attraction



I'm in Arizona right now and beautiful...i mean, absolutely BREATH taking women are out and about. I haven't seen this many hot girls in a while and, let's just say, the mere sight of it all feels like sensory overload. how can LOOKING at PEOPLE hijack all of my senses? I mean my heart starts racing, my mouth/throat dry up and I feel dizzy/faint. This is a problem as I don't want to come across as an intoxicated OR intimidated fool when I approach them.




I've thought about doing a yoga class while here, JUST to test my concentration/focus in the presence of lots of beautiful women. I want to meet a lady friend here

just open your mouth and think BEFORE you speak and be yourself

Believe it or not. But alot of sexy lady's don't get hit on because guys think there out of there leage. Just go for it. And for where you say you are. Tell me it isn't Fellows? That place sucks.

Yoga is a great place to meet chill, flexible hotties

if your thinking a female is going to say no to you - and she does - you have only confirmed your suspension.. not a real big loss overall

then again..

if your thinking a female is going to say no to you - and she actually seems very interested and says yes - then you have just proved to yourself that if you dont try you'll never know

i say go for it!! and think positive thoughts brother

Their is absolutely nothing sexier than confidence and as DROPZILLA said you are confident that if you walk right up to a girl and ask her out she will either say no or yes and if she says no there are many more beautiful woman to ask.

I would have NEVER asked my wife out. Her cousin set us up. She was way out of my league.
We've been together for 40 years.

Good luck

peace
doublejj

Wow doublejj Congratulations! you don't hear that much these days!