Android spy app needed

IgrowUgrow

IgrowUgrow

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I'm trying to save myself the headache now by finding out what she is up to, so I can be at peace. If I wanted this so I could spy all the time, I just want to know she is being honest with me. Who knows maybe I'm crazy and things just seem shady and they aren't. I don't want to just walk away when if I can get proof I'll confront her and say I saw her phone before she deleted it so she doesn't know about the spyware. I love her very much and I believe she loves me too, like I said she just processes emotions differently. She shows love differently also.
 
Grandpapy

Grandpapy

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IgrowUgrow said:
I'm trying to save myself the headache now by finding out what she is up to, so I can be at peace. If I wanted this so I could spy all the time, I just want to know she is being honest with me. Who knows maybe I'm crazy and things just seem shady and they aren't. I don't want to just walk away when if I can get proof I'll confront her and say I saw her phone before she deleted it so she doesn't know about the spyware. I love her very much and I believe she loves me too, like I said she just processes emotions differently. She shows love differently also.
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Are you sure you can trust the Software?
Where does it end?
 
IgrowUgrow

IgrowUgrow

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Grandpapy said:
Are you sure you can trust the Software?
Where does it end?
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That's why I'm asking if anyone knows a trust worthy software. It ends after a few days to a week when I don't see anything or I do. If I do I'm gone with no words exchanged and if I don't then I'll delete the software and have that trust again.
 
jerryb73

jerryb73

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Bro get a fucking grip. Seems to me you would try and stop her if you confirmed it to be true, cuz you love her so much. If she loved you the same we wouldn’t be having this conversation. Tell that bitch to kick rocks.. But my advice isn’t for everyone.

My relationships are open books, I always leave my phone laying around, and she can look whenever she likes, and she does, but I also have that same privilege. I never look cuz I don’t need to but if I ever want to I can and if she ever has a problem with it, kick rocks.....

Never understood one sided relationships:roll:
 
cjsbabygirl313

cjsbabygirl313

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jerryb73 said:
My relationships are open books, I always leave my phone laying around, and she can look whenever she likes, and she does, but I also have that same privilege. I never look cuz I don’t need to but if I ever want to I can and if she ever has a problem with it, kick rocks.....
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Hubby and I are the exact same way - and we agree NOT to delete texts or emails because that alone is shady. We both have iPhones and are on each other’’s friend finder. I have his fingerprint programmed into my phone and mine is programmed into his phone. 100% honesty and openness

Sorry OP, but I see a lot of unhealthy elements in both sides of your relationship, and it does not bode well for a happy future together.
 
lokie

lokie

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Much good advice given above.

I've told my wife she is welcome to see my phone and PC's anytime she wants.
She already knows the passwords and could easily check them anytime without my knowledge.

That you confront her after finding something THEN lie about how/when you found it is also
deceitful and compounds the issue. I agree with the talk it out now opinion.

One way to approach this is with 1 simple test.

Shit in her cup. That will surely start a conversation that will provoke communication that
you will likely get more information from.;):Po_O
 
jerryb73

jerryb73

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Based on what I have read, you should skip the wedding. Not trying to be a dick, but marriage doesn’t “fix” things. If your relationship isn’t healthy going in, probably not gonna get better.. how can you be happy if you don’t trust your spouse?

I’m divorced for this very reason, but I have found a much better one who I have been with nearly 10yrs.
 
Roger A. Shrubber

Roger A. Shrubber

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either you're about to marry a cheating bitch...or...you have serious trust issues....or...both.
no combination of those things are part of a successful marriage.
you can talk to her about this. you can seek counseling, if she's willing to go. you can call the whole thing off.
or you can go ahead and get married, find out you were right, get a divorce, and end up having to pay her alimony for cheating on you.....
don't have a real solution, just pointing out possible outcomes and options
 
Jimmyjonestoo

Jimmyjonestoo

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His answers are here already. If he doesn't trust her and can't talk to her about it, it's never going to work. Spying on her is as much a lie as her cheating. Tell her how you feel and tell her if she doesn't want to talk then you're calling off the wedding. If she isn't cheating and honestly loves you she won't allow that. If she shuts down or gets angry it's probably a good indication that you are correct. Take the high road and don't stoop to spying. That's a dickless move.
 
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