You guys are great thanks for the help.
Aside from anything else, and not that this is a symptom there of but.... Yes I am underwatered. It dawned on me that I just pulled a male out of an identical pot. When I bury my hand all the way to the bottom almost bone dry. It weighs about the same as the others. About the weight difference of the plants themselves. Hope they make it the next 3 hours of lights out..