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My eldest son ( the sensible one) at the coast today.

My Frankie enjoying the good weather bird watching up the apple tree.

That will be his choice, he knows how we feel and he appreciates that its our home he also knows he's loved and will always have a home with us no matter what he does, but I think he loves and respects us enough to abide by our rules when under our roof.

So tonight we actually sat down and my husband myself and my son talked at length about the problems we have with his activities, the conversation was emotional upsetting but very truthful, and it ended well. My son is going to find a place of his own, his dad told him he loved him and would...

Thank you to you all for your opinions and advice, tonight we will sit and talk, my husband has given him three weeks to find some where else to live, I feel sick at the thought of him going but have not spoken to my husband about it as yet. We slept apart last night I don't think either of us...

That's sad Joe, but often the way, she will realise what a good dad you have been when she gets older. I don't know kids who'd have them lol x

Oh he's done it and I know when he has it changes him noticeably, so we had a little talk about it before he left for Australia and he agreed he was not the same person when using so he stopped, and I know this may seem ridiculas but if you ask him he will never lie even if you don't like the...

I have never touched the stuff and neither has my husband, it was booze in our day not drugs. And yes your right he's in with the wrong crowd and he can do plenty wrong I know he's no angel, but he thinks life is good and the money is plentiful, he doesn't do it himself he says that's a mugs...

Sixteen is very young to be alone in the world Mojo, I couldn't have done that, that's quite a sad story and I'm glad you turned out okay xx

No you won't feel like that I promise you.

Your not strangers far from it, who else could I speak to about this no one that's who!

No Sunni not addicted in that way!

He gets in with my husband really well he would do anything for him and my husband would do anything for him, its just this thing that's happening, its not good.

He know's but thinks he has it under control, and a bad ass chav is not what he wants to be. He is seeing the world through the eye's of someone who he's in awe of.

He's not working at the moment, infact he had a interview today, being able to support himself is not a problem! that's the trouble.

He's 24yrs old.

Hurts is an understatement, what if something happens to him, I don't think I could take the chance I couldn't live with it.

Its not the leaving home I have a problem with its being told to leave his home when their may be other solutions to resolve whats happening.

I know Joe but this is his home, and my husband is worried he will bring trouble to the door but at least we can see whats happening if he's some where else any thing could happen and we wouldn't know about it, at least here we can try and keep him safe.

I'm sorry I cannot tell you more about the situation Sunni, but my husband is being a hypocrite. I know I have to let go sometime but I believe that time is when they leave home on their own accord that I can deal with, telling my son to leave is different.