...yeah, you have to cut yourself a break hon, it's only a plant, and a very young one at that, so you don't have much time invested in it and lets face it, mj seeds are easy to find, ...and as a new grower you shouldn't be messing with anything but bagseeds yet, ...don't pop any store-bought beans until you've earned enough skills to know for sure you have at least an 80% chance of keeping them alive.
...you need to do more research on your own too, you need to realize that while this is new to you, it ain't new so basic stuff has been asked so many times that most experienced growers don't bother trying to explain the easy stuff, most figure if you want it bad enough you'll accept responsibility for your own success and go ahunting for your answers rather than just asking questions and waiting for answers.
...you also need to understand that when you ask questions and wait for answers you'll get conflicting information almost every time so if you don't research older threads you'll have no clue which advice to follow, ...believe me, there are MANY well-meaning noobs giving TERRIBLE advice, ...the blind leading the blind, as it were.
...anyway, don't sweat the small shit or you'll be pulling your hair out before you smoke your first 'own-grown' bud.
peace, bozo