I am interested in solutions where I am not a freeloader, waste of money, disposable political line item half-human in the eyes of so many. What is one to do? I get a little tired when all the clever postulations forget the solution that they made seem so obvious. If you don't want to pay taxes period and imagine a society where that will work than I support your effort to make that a reality.
I don't want to enable systems that bundle "bads and dis services" (bombs for babies etc.) with "goods and services" (roads etc.) . I think there are more efficient ways to do things and I'm certain there are more ethical ways to do them. The entrenched systems and the people that run them have a mercenary self interest to prevent the unbundling, they like to hold power over others...
I don't have any problem. with people paying for that which they use, and/or voluntarily wish to pay for. My objections center around the arbitrary application of a one size fits all system that has the initiation of force at the core. Helping others is a good thing, but forcing others to do things, isn't good.
You might try to google, Free State Project, there are lots of people there that are seeking to set up systems that rely on voluntary and peaceful interactions. Like any group of people you'll find some doing things you may agree with, and others maybe not.